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I've rolled several issues into one here, because it's really all about the same thing... can you open a girl with genuine interest, when others may be listening, without getting "thrown under the bus" socially?
I'm talking exclusively about cold approach here, and specifically daytime cold approach, and while we're at it, I think it really only applies to the street. I have to confess I have developed something of an addiction to speaking with beautiful women in the street since I started approaching... it gives me a rush like nothing else.
Anyway, would anyone like to offer tips on finding one's feet in a group approach situation when one's only experience is with approaching women alone? The only time I've attempted a "group" opening was with two girls on a beach, and that went okay, but I don't really know what I'm doing. For example, I saw four women walking together in the street today, and three of them were attractive enough that I would have approached them had they been alone, and one was stunning. Yet I had no idea what to do. I am missing opportunities like this, which is a pity in itself, as well as reducing my ability to immerse myself in data points.
In a similar vein, what do you do in crowded areas where others may overhear and potentially embarrass the girl? The best example I can give is of white-collar employees pouring out of office buildings around 5 PM in their hundreds, with dozens of attractive women among them, all headed straight for the parking deck; yet I am at a loss as to how to open in such a busy environment where a girl may feel under pressure to give me a taste of "bus undercarriage" to protect her reputation.
Any suggestions for exercises or observations from personal experience will be appreciated!
I'm talking exclusively about cold approach here, and specifically daytime cold approach, and while we're at it, I think it really only applies to the street. I have to confess I have developed something of an addiction to speaking with beautiful women in the street since I started approaching... it gives me a rush like nothing else.
Anyway, would anyone like to offer tips on finding one's feet in a group approach situation when one's only experience is with approaching women alone? The only time I've attempted a "group" opening was with two girls on a beach, and that went okay, but I don't really know what I'm doing. For example, I saw four women walking together in the street today, and three of them were attractive enough that I would have approached them had they been alone, and one was stunning. Yet I had no idea what to do. I am missing opportunities like this, which is a pity in itself, as well as reducing my ability to immerse myself in data points.
In a similar vein, what do you do in crowded areas where others may overhear and potentially embarrass the girl? The best example I can give is of white-collar employees pouring out of office buildings around 5 PM in their hundreds, with dozens of attractive women among them, all headed straight for the parking deck; yet I am at a loss as to how to open in such a busy environment where a girl may feel under pressure to give me a taste of "bus undercarriage" to protect her reputation.
Any suggestions for exercises or observations from personal experience will be appreciated!
