Guys I need help might be my last chance with this girl!!!

[migs.salvacion]

So here's the situation, there's this girl that I like and I can't do anything about it because she was in a committed relationship. We became friends while she was in the relationship. Just recently her boyfriend just broke up with her. What should I do? Should I move fast and ask her out? I'm thinking to ask her out a week after the break up. Help guys I really like this girl and I don't want to mess up this chance. Thanks a lot guys!

 

[Mr.Rob]

https://www.girlschase.com/content/cant-stop-thinking-about-her-heres-why-you-need-meet-more-girls
This is probably your ultimate answer.

However for all sakes and purposes you might as well ask her out and see what she says. Don't wait until the "perfect" moment just get it over and done with so you can move on without building it up forever and getting shattered when you wait to long and get blown out.

It happened to me that way at least.

The best thing I ever did for my dating life was achieve abundance so I don't really care about any 1 girl. You may find that to be well for yourself as well.

Good luck!

-Rob

 

[Achilles]

I agree with Mr. Rob on this. There's two things to consider here:

1- Your situation with this girl: Move fast and don't over think it. Ask her out and escalate things quick to get her in bed as soon as possible.

2- Your situation with girls in general: Your fixation on this girl may mean you haven't achieved the abundance mentality yet. Read the article that Mr. Rob posted a link to. Achieving the abundance mentality is incredibly liberating and you will no longer experience the anxiety you seem to have over this girl, since there will be no more girls you will fixate over. Also, you'll have a better shot with this girl since you won't be over thinking things and you'll having a natural approach in your escalation, which will be evident and helpful in seducing her. If things don't work out with her (which often happens due to variables outside our control), move along to the next girl.

 

[migs.salvacion]

Hi guys, thanks for the reply. So do you think 1 week after her break up is enough a time period to ask her out?

 

[someone]

Good sir, I think you are missing the point. In the article the other two refer to Chase explains why you are ultimately much better off with the abundance mentality. Having options doesn't just give you other girls to fallback on; it also alleviates exactly the kind of pressure you find yourself facing. Don't think about it too much, you'll psyche yourself out.