- Joined
- Jan 6, 2020
- Messages
- 15
Intro: 36 years old. I've been going out now pretty consistently now for over a year and my results are very unsatisfying. I drive out from the burbs to the city of Chicago. My cold approach lay count was only like 6 girls for the whole year of 2019. I usually go out friday and saturday nights. I've been on like a 4 month cold streak now from cold approaching. I am trying to figure out what I am doing wrong. I could really use some mentorship.
I think I am a relatively average looking guy with a big build. I am 6'3 with a decent amount of muscle mass on me. I usually wear very basic v neck with jeans when I go out. Usually a nice pair of chelsea boots as well. I have a white spot on the right part of my face from a skin disorder that I had as a kid. It's a auto immune disease that took the pigment away from my skin cells as a kid.
h8theh8ers my pic
My Game: My game is usually going to loud places with a dancefloor and I try and get iois from girls but also just approaching cold. I like to get a nice buzz while going out to approach woman. It's difficult to do it completely sober.I seem to be only getting 2-3 clear cut iois from girls every night and I am usually not interested in those girls I get iois from. I definitely feel more comfortable approaching girls on the dancefloor. I am a introvert by nature but find myself able to have fun dancing to music regardless if I am getting the interest of ladies or not. Music puts me into a really good mood. I try and walk around the bar or club slowly and try and get into interactions with anybody to build social momentum.
My verbal game is very lacking so thats why I feel like going to loud places where you can only use non verbals mostly. I have a hard time spiking the emotions of woman. I tend to start feeling like I dont know what to say and some conversations turn to boring interview mode when that happens.
1) Do you guys think I am good enough looking to be trying this aggressive screening game?
2) Should I look into trying to cover up my white spot on my face with some sort of makeup? Do woman see this a genetic inferiority?
3) Do you guys think the tight v neck to show off my muscle mass as try hard? Should I switch the maybe dress shirts? Am i coming off as a meathead?
4) What should I follow to try and become more competent in my verbals with woman?
Bottom line I feel like 6 lays from cold approach in a year of going out is unacceptable. I feel as a big dude like me I should be doing way better.
I think I am a relatively average looking guy with a big build. I am 6'3 with a decent amount of muscle mass on me. I usually wear very basic v neck with jeans when I go out. Usually a nice pair of chelsea boots as well. I have a white spot on the right part of my face from a skin disorder that I had as a kid. It's a auto immune disease that took the pigment away from my skin cells as a kid.
h8theh8ers my pic
My Game: My game is usually going to loud places with a dancefloor and I try and get iois from girls but also just approaching cold. I like to get a nice buzz while going out to approach woman. It's difficult to do it completely sober.I seem to be only getting 2-3 clear cut iois from girls every night and I am usually not interested in those girls I get iois from. I definitely feel more comfortable approaching girls on the dancefloor. I am a introvert by nature but find myself able to have fun dancing to music regardless if I am getting the interest of ladies or not. Music puts me into a really good mood. I try and walk around the bar or club slowly and try and get into interactions with anybody to build social momentum.
My verbal game is very lacking so thats why I feel like going to loud places where you can only use non verbals mostly. I have a hard time spiking the emotions of woman. I tend to start feeling like I dont know what to say and some conversations turn to boring interview mode when that happens.
1) Do you guys think I am good enough looking to be trying this aggressive screening game?
2) Should I look into trying to cover up my white spot on my face with some sort of makeup? Do woman see this a genetic inferiority?
3) Do you guys think the tight v neck to show off my muscle mass as try hard? Should I switch the maybe dress shirts? Am i coming off as a meathead?
4) What should I follow to try and become more competent in my verbals with woman?
Bottom line I feel like 6 lays from cold approach in a year of going out is unacceptable. I feel as a big dude like me I should be doing way better.
Last edited: