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So had around 30-40 approaches in total yesterday (if we also count the semi-approaches where I would simply wave and smile at women I was unsure about to see how they'd react [side note; not sure if it was just the approach itself or the fact that I was unsure about them or just dumb luck but none of those were even somewhat interested]).
4 numbers, but one of them I'm 99% sure fat fingered her number because she seemed so into me at the time. Got a wrong number reply to that text.
So down to 3 solid numbers. One of them was a latina I met in line for the bathroom. Another was a girl I met on the street going to a grill, and then the third and final one was another girl on the street who was dancing in front of her phone. And her words "live streaming for my simps"
Anyways, get a date loosely scheduled with the latina on Wednesday when she's free. Going to call her either today or tomorrow about that.
Get a date loosely scheduled with grill girl on Wednesday afternoon. Then schedule a date with simp girl an hour later.
Text both of the new girls so they have my number and the grill girl's response made it seem like she was open for a date. So I threw out some bait and she took it!
She is on her way back and then I send flake text to simp girl (plus, I somewhat get the feeling that she was going to flake on me anyways). Texted her about an hour ago, nothing yet. We shall see. She did send a kind of weird text 20 minutes after my text though... "ooooo"
Interesting....
The Date:
We meet up and she's immediately hooked and interested, which is nice. Just basic chit chat, dive into some of her dreams and all of that. Walked around, nothing special really happened.
She seemed resistant to talk about anything sexual, but kind of open. So either she's more experienced than a pornstar or she's not experienced much at all and hyper nervous. My gut tells me nervous, especially since her kissing came off inexperienced. But ya never know.
I'll text her again shortly and see what we can get going. Logistics were terrible for me. Offered to drive her home or walk her home a few times throughout the night but she was insistent on walking by herself. Decided not to push it
Couple Things I've Noticed About Myself, Or Takeaways:
1) I had to carry the conversation, though she did try, especially later on when she kind of relaxed a little bit => I have a surprising lack of topics to talk about anymore... this is very unlike me. Although I was also trying to project sexual energy/state into her so that probably blocked me a bit. But yeah, online dating has spoiled me a little bit regarding this. Especially when I was allowed to run rampant a few months back... it was so easy and so fun haha
2) Something I already knew; logistics suck ass. Need to figure out a way around this when pulling to her place isn't an option. This just involves me exploring more
3) I tried to pull out some of my hypnosis related stuff. The first try was a little bit forced, but the second try came off extremely well. Just have to relax and wait for natural opportunities or, as I did the second time, do a better job of engineering those opportunities. Actually had a few ideas come to me about how I can do this better during the date itself
4) Looking back, I may have missed an escalation opportunity where she wanted to go down a dark walking area. But I saw like 4 guys just sitting there in the corner where it started and didn't want to go. After I pointed them out she seemed a little disappointed. I picked up on that but not the reason. I kind of ignored it since my threat meter went up a little bit, so it's anyone's guess there on why she was disappointed. Could be accurate that she was looking for a secluded place, could just be wishful thinking. But either way, she was not going to let me come home with her...
--> typing this out I already know what I could have done. There's another nearby park that's huge, and there are a few little spots that the trees cover. Especially at night. Damn... should've done that
4 numbers, but one of them I'm 99% sure fat fingered her number because she seemed so into me at the time. Got a wrong number reply to that text.
So down to 3 solid numbers. One of them was a latina I met in line for the bathroom. Another was a girl I met on the street going to a grill, and then the third and final one was another girl on the street who was dancing in front of her phone. And her words "live streaming for my simps"
Anyways, get a date loosely scheduled with the latina on Wednesday when she's free. Going to call her either today or tomorrow about that.
Get a date loosely scheduled with grill girl on Wednesday afternoon. Then schedule a date with simp girl an hour later.
Text both of the new girls so they have my number and the grill girl's response made it seem like she was open for a date. So I threw out some bait and she took it!
She is on her way back and then I send flake text to simp girl (plus, I somewhat get the feeling that she was going to flake on me anyways). Texted her about an hour ago, nothing yet. We shall see. She did send a kind of weird text 20 minutes after my text though... "ooooo"
Interesting....
The Date:
We meet up and she's immediately hooked and interested, which is nice. Just basic chit chat, dive into some of her dreams and all of that. Walked around, nothing special really happened.
She seemed resistant to talk about anything sexual, but kind of open. So either she's more experienced than a pornstar or she's not experienced much at all and hyper nervous. My gut tells me nervous, especially since her kissing came off inexperienced. But ya never know.
I'll text her again shortly and see what we can get going. Logistics were terrible for me. Offered to drive her home or walk her home a few times throughout the night but she was insistent on walking by herself. Decided not to push it
Couple Things I've Noticed About Myself, Or Takeaways:
1) I had to carry the conversation, though she did try, especially later on when she kind of relaxed a little bit => I have a surprising lack of topics to talk about anymore... this is very unlike me. Although I was also trying to project sexual energy/state into her so that probably blocked me a bit. But yeah, online dating has spoiled me a little bit regarding this. Especially when I was allowed to run rampant a few months back... it was so easy and so fun haha
2) Something I already knew; logistics suck ass. Need to figure out a way around this when pulling to her place isn't an option. This just involves me exploring more
3) I tried to pull out some of my hypnosis related stuff. The first try was a little bit forced, but the second try came off extremely well. Just have to relax and wait for natural opportunities or, as I did the second time, do a better job of engineering those opportunities. Actually had a few ideas come to me about how I can do this better during the date itself
4) Looking back, I may have missed an escalation opportunity where she wanted to go down a dark walking area. But I saw like 4 guys just sitting there in the corner where it started and didn't want to go. After I pointed them out she seemed a little disappointed. I picked up on that but not the reason. I kind of ignored it since my threat meter went up a little bit, so it's anyone's guess there on why she was disappointed. Could be accurate that she was looking for a secluded place, could just be wishful thinking. But either way, she was not going to let me come home with her...
--> typing this out I already know what I could have done. There's another nearby park that's huge, and there are a few little spots that the trees cover. Especially at night. Damn... should've done that
