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I was in a drought of approaches for about two weeks, thankfully that changed Halloween week.
I managed to start with two gym approaches Monday and one Tuesday, Though the quality of the conversation wasn't the best, I got hit with the ""I have a boyfriend" line almost immediately which doesn't normally happen, even though I felt the most confident I ever was.
I was in Brooklyn Thursday for a metal concert where I was able to approach a girl who was waiting for her friends in the smoking area of the venue. I simply opened by asking if she came here often and if she was a big fan of the artist. The conversation delved deeper. We talked about where we were from, what we went to school for, passions. I was playful with her, having her guess my age and birth month. The conversations went on for a while. I got her number and socials.
Eventually she would give me hints for a kiss, which I took advantage of. We made out for a while. Probably the highlight for the week, It's been a month since my last kiss.
After the next band started I went back inside and let her to go back to her friends. When this band finished I went back out to the smoking area, she wasn't there so I decided to approach a few more sets. It didn't really lead anywhere, but I got about three extra approaches in before I felt burnt out and just wanted to enjoy my concert.
Halloween night I went to Brooklyn again for a party I was invited too. The crowd sucked. The place was full of duds and alot of LGBQT. Half the people were in and out almost instantly and just using the place to pre-game for another party. I still approached about two decent looking sets of girls, that kept me company during the party. It wasn't so bad.
After taking the train back home, to what felt like a complete waste of time, I decided to talk to two cute clown girls that sat behind me, just simple stuff like what they did and how there Halloween was. I got their socials and we talked the whole ride home until this other girl sat next to me.
I felt nervous at first, but I opened with her the same way I did the other two. This girl was hot, but pretty insane, she told me she had a coke induced seizure in the city. She was paranoid about another seizure breaking out, but I did what I could to keep her calm through out the ride. We talked for a while, she told me her whole life story and she eventually calmed down. She gave me her number and socials eventually. The next day she texted me she was ok. She is kind of out of it so I don't expect us to get very far. I still enjoyed our brief time together though.
I tapped out Saturday and Sunday. I needed to rest and recover both physically and mentally. I'll do maintenance approaches here and there. I go back to Brooklyn in about ten days for another concert, where the shenanigans will begin again.
I managed to start with two gym approaches Monday and one Tuesday, Though the quality of the conversation wasn't the best, I got hit with the ""I have a boyfriend" line almost immediately which doesn't normally happen, even though I felt the most confident I ever was.
I was in Brooklyn Thursday for a metal concert where I was able to approach a girl who was waiting for her friends in the smoking area of the venue. I simply opened by asking if she came here often and if she was a big fan of the artist. The conversation delved deeper. We talked about where we were from, what we went to school for, passions. I was playful with her, having her guess my age and birth month. The conversations went on for a while. I got her number and socials.
Eventually she would give me hints for a kiss, which I took advantage of. We made out for a while. Probably the highlight for the week, It's been a month since my last kiss.
After the next band started I went back inside and let her to go back to her friends. When this band finished I went back out to the smoking area, she wasn't there so I decided to approach a few more sets. It didn't really lead anywhere, but I got about three extra approaches in before I felt burnt out and just wanted to enjoy my concert.
Halloween night I went to Brooklyn again for a party I was invited too. The crowd sucked. The place was full of duds and alot of LGBQT. Half the people were in and out almost instantly and just using the place to pre-game for another party. I still approached about two decent looking sets of girls, that kept me company during the party. It wasn't so bad.
After taking the train back home, to what felt like a complete waste of time, I decided to talk to two cute clown girls that sat behind me, just simple stuff like what they did and how there Halloween was. I got their socials and we talked the whole ride home until this other girl sat next to me.
I felt nervous at first, but I opened with her the same way I did the other two. This girl was hot, but pretty insane, she told me she had a coke induced seizure in the city. She was paranoid about another seizure breaking out, but I did what I could to keep her calm through out the ride. We talked for a while, she told me her whole life story and she eventually calmed down. She gave me her number and socials eventually. The next day she texted me she was ok. She is kind of out of it so I don't expect us to get very far. I still enjoyed our brief time together though.
I tapped out Saturday and Sunday. I needed to rest and recover both physically and mentally. I'll do maintenance approaches here and there. I go back to Brooklyn in about ten days for another concert, where the shenanigans will begin again.
