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So in the past I've had two guy friends who were both what you would consider "naturals" with women. They didn't know how they did it, they were just always very good with women. However, I was and still am, a total "newbie" for all intents and purposes. Whenever my two guy friends would tell me about how they banged this chick or slept with this one, it would make me insanely jealous. I would try and play it cool, but it upset me, because it made me realize how much of a loser I was. I always felt like less of a man when I hung out with these guys; I know I probably shouldn't be comparing myself to guys who have been with 10x the amount of girls as I have. I have to start small and learn to love to small victories that I achieve.
I knew it was probably not a good reaction to have, to be jealous of your wingmen, but it was very hard for me to feel any differently. I ended up not hanging out with them much anymore, because I always felt sure insecure and a loser when I would hangout with these guys. They were naturals, and so they couldn't explain to me how they were doing these things with women, they said women just come to them, it just happened.
So my question is, should I not have stopped hanging out with these guys? How should I have reacted differently with these guys when they tell me about all their lays and I still haven't had one in months? How do I not become jealous and insecure and feel like less of a man around these guys? These guys have slept with probably 10x the amount of women that I have, so maybe it would be good for me to hangout with them?
Cheers.
I knew it was probably not a good reaction to have, to be jealous of your wingmen, but it was very hard for me to feel any differently. I ended up not hanging out with them much anymore, because I always felt sure insecure and a loser when I would hangout with these guys. They were naturals, and so they couldn't explain to me how they were doing these things with women, they said women just come to them, it just happened.
So my question is, should I not have stopped hanging out with these guys? How should I have reacted differently with these guys when they tell me about all their lays and I still haven't had one in months? How do I not become jealous and insecure and feel like less of a man around these guys? These guys have slept with probably 10x the amount of women that I have, so maybe it would be good for me to hangout with them?
Cheers.
