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She's a stunner. Enters the group; ignores me; Even when we run into her later, as I position myself right in front of her I see in my peripheral vision that she doesn't even look at me. As we walk I take her hand lightly. I'm surprised she actually complies. Her touch feels loving - wishful thinking? She pulls back regardless. [1]
I tell her to give me her number before we loose sight of each other. "You're so handsome.", "I really appreciate it. but I have a boyfriend.", "You're the first one since I met him who gets me curious, but I can't." are responses I get in this moment and when run into each other later. She successfully resists any attempts to probe. [2]
She's 11 years younger. I tell her my age. "Oh. That's not that old" - Inside I am all "WTF?!" as usually girls bail once they realize how much older I am.
"You can't do that." What? Be so cute? So here I am with a stunning girl who'd be all over me, considers our age difference as OK and then she "can't".
A spark of doubt remains: Could this just be a tactic she uses to make guys go crazy for her? Guess that thought just stems from some insecure part inside me.
Halfheartedly I try to pull in a girl that is in our group. She flees immediately. I stop another beauty, she gives me her name, but wants to bail quickly. I try to manhandle a kiss. Our tongues touch. She still bails.
Outside a blonde returns my greeting. inside I stop her, grab her hand as she's walking by. She slips.
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LESSONS LEARNT
[1] Before even trying, it's impossible to tell that a girl is actually not interested.
[2] Obviously she's more invested in her boyfriend. Even though she openly stated her interest too, I was the chaser. Will see to improve my chase-framing.
I tell her to give me her number before we loose sight of each other. "You're so handsome.", "I really appreciate it. but I have a boyfriend.", "You're the first one since I met him who gets me curious, but I can't." are responses I get in this moment and when run into each other later. She successfully resists any attempts to probe. [2]
She's 11 years younger. I tell her my age. "Oh. That's not that old" - Inside I am all "WTF?!" as usually girls bail once they realize how much older I am.
"You can't do that." What? Be so cute? So here I am with a stunning girl who'd be all over me, considers our age difference as OK and then she "can't".
A spark of doubt remains: Could this just be a tactic she uses to make guys go crazy for her? Guess that thought just stems from some insecure part inside me.
Halfheartedly I try to pull in a girl that is in our group. She flees immediately. I stop another beauty, she gives me her name, but wants to bail quickly. I try to manhandle a kiss. Our tongues touch. She still bails.
Outside a blonde returns my greeting. inside I stop her, grab her hand as she's walking by. She slips.
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LESSONS LEARNT
[1] Before even trying, it's impossible to tell that a girl is actually not interested.
[2] Obviously she's more invested in her boyfriend. Even though she openly stated her interest too, I was the chaser. Will see to improve my chase-framing.
