Have you encountered this? Girls mood changes daily randomly

[Humay]

I've been talking to girls a lot more now (though i still don't have the courage to really flirt with them), and there's this one girl i'm particularly friendly with. It kind of drives me crazy because one day, everything goes just great- she's talking, smiling and giggling with me. The next day, she's a bit quiet (not sad, just less enthusiastic), less talkative and a lot more serious. The topic conversation remains basically the same, but her attitude towards me seems to vary greatly. Then one day out of the blue again, she's back to happy mode and the cycle repeats.

At first, i thought that there must be something wrong with what i did that day, but i couldn't recall anything that could of hindered me like that. So i'm wondering, is this a problem i should expect with the majority of girls too? Or is it probably just her? I don't have enough experience yet to know if this is just a 'girl problem'!

Thank you

 

[Richard]

Re: Have you encountered this? Girls mood changes daily rand

Nothing to worry about man. Nobody ever has an entirely stable mood, nobody is always happy, or always sad, unless you have mania or depression (mood disorders). Think about it, are you always in the best of moods? or do you have days where you're less enthusiastic and less pumped about life? I can tell you that I generally don't, but from time to time I have my days. Women are no different, and women are much more prone to shifts in emotions, talk to her more, and deep dive a little bit, see if there is anything in her life which may cause her periodic stress such as a bad job, family, etc. Poke around a bit and see what you dig up, I'll bet there's an external force in her life causing her dismay.

 

[Humay]

Re: Have you encountered this? Girls mood changes daily rand

Thanks Zphinx. I know what you mean. She has got a new job, so i guess that's what stressing her out.

I feel like this relationship, though not intimate yet, isn't really going anywhere. It's all one step forward, one step back. I don't mind too much, but i'll be annoyed if this happens to every woman i'm with!

 

[Richard]

Re: Have you encountered this? Girls mood changes daily rand

Trust me, the majority of women are not like that, when a women is genuinely interested in you she will strive to keep you and her in a good mood, she will strive to keep your interest, and will also strive to keep yours. Keep your head up and keep meeting women, you'll finda joy it is out what

 

[Good Vibes]

Re: Have you encountered this? Girls mood changes daily rand

is this a problem i should expect with the majority of girls too? Or is it probably just her? I don't have enough experience yet to know if this is just a 'girl problem'!

It could be the problems in her life but if she's attracted to you she is probably getting frustrated with you wondering if you like her or going to make a move on her. You must do something or she'll give up on you, her attraction will expiry before too long. Don't worry too much about her change in moods (Reactions), just focus on making moves (Results).