Have you read this? Hilarious post about seducers VS nice guys

[sneaky_charm]

Oh God, have you read this?

http://bolstablog.wordpress.com/2010/09/13/mr-right/

It is a guy's list of "Fifteen Reasons Why Beautiful Women Have Trouble Finding Mr. RIght"

It is all about seducers ruining it for nice guys. Throughout the post, I couldn't help but nod and laugh!

SIDE NOTE: If you remember, I am in India, and changed city recently. The new city has drop-dead gorgeous girls all around, but the average height of girls is much higher, almost like in the US. The average of guys is also about 5'10'' or something. So those of you guys who don't like Indian chicks because, well, they don't look pretty (true mostly), I encourage you to come here (Chase, I'm looking at you too!).

Shit I haven't even approached girls, cause nobody even gives me a second glance here, while it used to be the opposite in the previous city! Sad I know.

I'm not fucking leaving this city, everywhere I look, gorgeous girls catch my eyes. Will have to significantly ramp up my fundamentals though.

- Kevin

 

[Mr.Rob]

The experience can be so foreign and disorienting that he comes across as a stammering fool. Patience here can pay off, for nice guys often have good relationship potential once the initial shock wears off.

Lol. Good relationship potential as in the girl is going to run the relationship and do whatever she wants?

I'd like to meet the person that wrote that article, as it sounds totally speculative. It sounds like the type of thing a "nice guy" would write.

 

[sneaky_charm]

Lol. Good relationship potential as in the girl is going to run the relationship and do whatever she wants?

I'd like to meet the person that wrote that article, as it sounds totally speculative. It sounds like the type of thing a "nice guy" would write.

Must admit, the guy has a knack for writing like a true nice guy! Must be a pussy magnet, lol!

 

[PinotNoir]

This is a strange article. He's stereotyping all guys that want to be good with women. Huh?

All men that want to be good with women and are taking active steps to be better with women....
- Only view women as commodities
- Only think about themselves all the time
- Are bad in relationships
- etc.

It sounds a bit butt-hurt.

For example, it's like if I'm attracted to Asian women, and I were to only see Asian men with Asian women. Then I write an article about how Asian men only view Asian women as commodities and that they need to be with a white guy like myself.

Sounds a bit off, right?

It's a lot of victim mentality and white knighting. MY GOD. Some things he says have an ounce of originality and logical sense, but most of it is just way off.

Another example would be if I'm trying to become an elite athlete, and I talk about how the rules are unfair and that elite athletes should be handicapped haha. Not as good of an analogy, but you get the point.

It takes a MOUNTAIN to change the world and society, and it does need to be changed. But, if you don't want to die a lonely man (since changing society takes centuries/generations), it takes much LESS to change yourself. Get experience, learn, become a seducer AND a lover of women. That's what this guy needs to do. Learn how to be the guys he hates or better and then form a loving committed relationship if that's what he wants.

 

[sneaky_charm]

It takes a MOUNTAIN to change the world and society, and it does need to be changed. But, if you don't want to die a lonely man (since changing society takes centuries/generations), it takes much LESS to change yourself. Get experience, learn, become a seducer AND a lover of women. That's what this guy needs to do. Learn how to be the guys he hates or better and then form a loving committed relationship if that's what he wants.

Well said! You gotta agree though, the whole post is really funny for us to read.

Also, astonishing that the article has so many comments and support! Poor chicks! At least the majority of our guys try not to hurt girls. Don't know about other PUA forums.

 

[Smith]

lol This basically sums up all the social conditioning 'nice guys' are fed with. Saw RSDTyler explaining this in a video.
Game is not simple enough for masses to understand, that's why people think game is for damaged guys that fuck sluts or the girl they fuck is drunk, which is the simplified ideas that the society feeds them.

Always double check and cross reference the stories the society tells you, so you don't realize you got fucked over at the age of 50.

Found this yesterday https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDy08-RphI8

Enjoy tyler destroying a white knight!

 

[sneaky_charm]

Game is not simple enough for masses to understand, that's why people think game is for damaged guys that fuck sluts or the girl they fuck is drunk, which is the simplified ideas that the society feeds them.

Totally agree! Very well put!

 

[Tim Iron]

This is why nobody knows I am on a site like this - typical stereotyping labeling. If you are learning how to be better with women - DON'T TELL ANYONE!