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user3423424

Space Monkey
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Hi everyone ,

My name is kin and I haven't had much experience with women throughout my life so I decided to change myself and learn how to become good with women .


I'm been constantly learning from Chase articles and going out approaching women at day time many times but my results are very bad .

When I started to use my knowledge which I learn from Chase into the fields at day time , I started walking everywhere around the city , traveling via train just trying to met women . My outcome from this was horrible . My first day I only met 3 women and the conversation lasted less than one minute . Now , I done this a couple of times and I figured walking everyone is a bad idea because you eventually get tired and time passes too quickly.

So I decided to change my whole game play by only staying in one whole venue and my game plan was to stand around pretending minding my own business in a busy place and as soon as a pretty women would walk pass . I would catch up to her and pretend to walk in front of her to get her attention then , I would slowly level myself across her and nudge her by her side and use a genuine opener trying to use the principle of law of effortless . Now because I am new , I realize this is very tiring and difficult and sometime , the woman would just walk into another direction and my plan would just crash . I would be like in my mind " Nooooo , Don't walk that way :( " .

For this scenario , is this the recommended way to approach women ? or I should I just follow her from behind and nudge her , followed by an genuine compliment . I watched videos of other pick up artist , and how they approach women by jumping right in front of her is too obvious .

My 2 questions are If I see a women walking on the streets , how should I approach her ? and how should I approach a women walking the opposite of my direction ? If I see a women walking the opposite of my direction how can we use the law of effortless principles without been too obvious or its rather better to just follow her and stop her and open her with genuine interest
thank you for reading this
 
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kin said:
My 2 questions are If I see a women walking on the streets , how should I approach her ? and how should I approach a women walking the opposite of my direction ? If I see a women walking the opposite of my direction how can we use the law of effortless principles without been too obvious or its rather better to just follow her and stop her and open her with genuine interest
thank you for reading this

Tips:
1. Never approach directly from the front (exception is if she has made direct eye contact with you and held it after you noticed and met it, then you need to act fast and say something about her/genuine interest). If you're walking in opposite directions it's better usually to just turn around and catch up to her...immediately.
2. Approach from the side and over your shoulder, as if you're about to walk away. You only face her if she changes her body position to face you.
3. Pre-open her: position yourself to her side and lightly touch her on her elbow or shoulder with either side of your palm. LIGHTLY. She will notice you and look your way.
4. When you notice her looking at you, have your eyes meet. You should be smiling, and your fundamentals HAVE to be handled for this to work. Very, very important.
5. Compliment her on something, with a deep voice or a smile. I.e. "I really like your style, it's the best I've seen all day..."
6. Transition IMMEDIATELY. For the above opener: "...Are you in fashion?" or "...Are you a creative type?" Now begin the process of learning about her.
7. Pay attention to her feet. Your feet should mirror hers. If her feet are not facing you, yours should not be facing hers. If they are facing you, she's interested and you need to adjust accordingly.
8. If you have to, move her out of traffic so that you're locked into something.

Final tip:
Everything I just described should not take longer than 4-5 seconds, maybe 10 if you get her talking. If it is too long, then you're being weird and creepy from her perspective. You need to act fast, and it needs to come across natural, not engineered. And the only way you can learn that is with practice.
 

user3423424

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Ozz , Thank you very much for your help , , I will definitely practice them in action.

Ozz , How would you approach women walking the opposite direction for instance , in a street foot path , people are walking both direction simultaneously. I do understand not to approach directly in front because its full force .

So if we see a girl walking the opposite direction , is their any way we can approach them ? Tactics ? otherwise ,we going to be missing out meeting all women who walk the opposite direction . lol

thank you ozz
 
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