Having more success after college than in college

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I noticed that the quality of women I have been with after college has gone up along with the easiness of landing one night stands. Girls after college play way less games from my experience and I find that I can now get the kind of girls who I would have usually not had much success with in college (the hot blonde or the cute girl you see at the bar that is dressed nice).

What's sad is that the college I went to was a known party school with a lot of hot girls but it seemed like no matter how much game I ran on them or what I did, I always got rejected and couldn't get anywhere with the majority of them. I had my luck but it was not commonly found.

What is worse I don't even know what happened, I have not changed one bit and I have so much more success.

 

[Franco]

Proactivity,

What is worse I don't even know what happened, I have not changed one bit and I have so much more success.

What you'll find that's very nice about the world outside of college and cold-approaching girls you don't know is that it is much easier for you to be a girl's "secret" man that no one has to know about should things not go well between you two, or if a girl just wants to have a roll in the hay without her social reputation being reprimanded.

The one thing that separates college parties from post-college places to meet women is that there is little-to-no interweaving of social circles. In college (and especially at college parties), everyone knows everyone to a certain degree, and girls can be very stingy about taking the wrong guy to bed at the wrong place and at the wrong time due to the fact that she could be socially "slut-shamed" for doing it. Girls will be much more responsive to your approach in the college scene, but they will often be much more resistant to actually going all the way with you. They need to protect their social reputations.

So, assuming you have broken your fear of cold approaching women that you have no social ties to, you'll find that these women will often be very 'hot' or very 'cold' toward you -- it's either on like Donkey Kong, or they'll pretty much ignore your approaches and show you the door. This can actually be nice, however, because you won't spend tons of time trying to seduce women who legitimately aren't interested, and you actually move very quickly with the ones who are. So what you're probably noticing is that the girls who are interested in you are willing to move things extremely quickly because they know it's going to be "your little secret" that you two spent a passionate night together without all the formal "courting" that would be expected from her friends if they were around.

I hope that ups your understanding a bit. =)

- Franco

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Thank you Franco, that makes a lot of sense. I was not the most popular kid in college but I did spend time talking to girls.

I know this might come off as a bit strange but I kinda always wanted to be with a hot sorority chick. Back in college I lacked what it took to get these girls but now I feel way more confident in myself. How difficult do you think it would be for a successful guy (financially) to go to a college town and get a ONS with a sorority girl?

 

[Franco]

How difficult do you think it would be for a successful guy (financially) to go to a college town and get a ONS with a sorority girl?

Probably not all that difficult if you use day-game and have your fundamentals down well. You would probably want to peruse the cafeteria area during lunch time and meet one of them there, preferably if she's alone and eating by herself. You'll probably want to have a reason that you're temporarily on campus for the day (maybe it's for business if you're working or maybe you were interested in taking a few classes at the campus) and then try to pull either right then or set up a date for the same evening. The idea is to present yourself as this sexy guy that's in town just for the day where she can have a little fun and get away without anyone else knowing about it.

If she has a dorm or apartment on campus, then logistics could be pretty straightforward. Or you can always take her to your car for a little backseat romp.

- Franco

 

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

That's the problem, if she is the popular sorority type then she will hardly ever be alone.

What are your thoughts on college bars and such for guys who are trying to night game college girls?

 

[Franco]

What are your thoughts on college bars and such for guys who are trying to night game college girls?

That works, too. Although you might as well just hit on hot girls in general if you're going to the bars! Only a small subset of girls at the bars are going to be sorority girls since most will graduate at the age of 22 if they're at a 4-year university.

- Franco

 

[BarryS1]

What's sad is that the college I went to was a known party school with a lot of hot girls but it seemed like no matter how much game I ran on them or what I did, I always got rejected and couldn't get anywhere with the majority of them. I had my luck but it was not commonly found.

Same situation here! I wasted TONS of time in student clubs, social circles, and at events, but got nowhere (though it was fun too). I quit the college social scene my last semester and did cold-approaching instead and wow, what lifestyle change.

So, assuming you have broken your fear of cold approaching women that you have no social ties to, you'll find that these women will often be very 'hot' or very 'cold' toward you -- it's either on like Donkey Kong, or they'll pretty much ignore your approaches and show you the door.This can actually be nice, however, because you won't spend tons of time trying to seduce women who legitimately aren't interested, and you actually move very quickly with the ones who are.

Franco, that perfectly sums up my experience. I was shell-shocked after the first month of cold-approaching girls because I sensed a genuine interest for the first time. I think college girls want to be polite and not let the guy down so hard because interaction could occur again. College girls gave their attention, phone numbers, and hugs quite liberally.