Actually all my life I have only went to nightclubs once and that was with a more experienced friend. Now I need to go to nightclubs alone to squeeze girls. How do i do that? The other day I did go and check out this local nightclub and saw lots of African Americans at the front and figured that it would be a funny scene that one asian man surrounded by hundreds of African Americans. So I took off. No offence to African Americans me myself have African Americans friends it's just doesn't feel right. I guess I just have to find ones with mixed crowds. So the question is how you motivate yourself to hit the club alone?
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Just exploring this myself now. Here are three articles that are helping me get a lot better at it.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/going ... t-yourself
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-b ... ciable-men
https://www.girlschase.com/content/8-use ... nightclubs
https://www.girlschase.com/content/going ... t-yourself
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-b ... ciable-men
https://www.girlschase.com/content/8-use ... nightclubs
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Eh dont be scared about that. You might make.more friends than you think because you are different. Its extremely intimidating I.know trust me, people can be assholes just smile.keep.to yourself and.dont.kiss anyones ass be a man about it. Back.in cleveland I was literally the only white person in a club of.black.people. literally the only one. Set up dates to go and go, just dont get discouraged. I.work as a bouncer in a club and woman.are way more receptive and.open to.me which could be a cause of the authority figure complex. When im at the club an approach woman just in.street clothes as a normal.person soooo much resistance sometimes start with tge uglier girls to.get some compliance and warm up rhen move for it.
Speaking from.personal.experience ive had plenty of.nights of nothing and then plenty of.nights where I walked out with a hot chick. Never took her home.or heard from them again but hey we are all working to simething right. Just if things get dicey biunce, but approach and talk.move.fast then bounce to the next spot. Do it again my friend. There is no other way to explain it than set up a time get in the car and go. Sometimes you might stand around sometimes girls will approach. It's a roll of the dice. I still get.nervous about.it.sometimes but.I.go.to.clubs alone. If you have any questions.let me.know
Speaking from.personal.experience ive had plenty of.nights of nothing and then plenty of.nights where I walked out with a hot chick. Never took her home.or heard from them again but hey we are all working to simething right. Just if things get dicey biunce, but approach and talk.move.fast then bounce to the next spot. Do it again my friend. There is no other way to explain it than set up a time get in the car and go. Sometimes you might stand around sometimes girls will approach. It's a roll of the dice. I still get.nervous about.it.sometimes but.I.go.to.clubs alone. If you have any questions.let me.know
maximus6004 said:
Hi Maximus,
Thanks for your reply, really appreciate it! Yes you're right, it is intimidating. It takes balls to go to nightclubs and surrounded by people different from you and I can tell you've been there and done that. Taking your advice I am gonna go this weekend and just " get in there". Any don't do list?
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When I.first started doing it.man, I would donwhat chase wrote about.id.go.in and find a couple groups and try and feed off them. Dont.do that. They wont respect you. If you see a group.just talk to them.real quick. Go in walk.through the club real fast see what you got, dont.over think thebsituationn set a time limit to be in that spot. Ive had awkward situations where I just bounced out of clubs because I tried.talking.to a.girl and shebthought I was super creepy approaching her. I left went to the next club pulled a girl and some.nights pulled no one. So dont let it discourage you! Just go.for.it if.itbdoesnt work out with the girl and you feel rediculous go to the next club. Other then that follow the advice on gc, post your field reports on the boards and let us help you.
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Lets see, I find that the time limit is a good thing, it makes you pay attention and be receptive from the moment you get there. Last Saturday I entered the club, spotted a girl looking at me and pulled her number. If I would have taken too much time to warm up I would have passed her.
Regarding being alone I found that constantly relocate helps me not feeling stucked or out of place and sometimes when there is a group of people similar to you just being near them makes you feel like.you are with them and make you more relaxed for the approaches.
Regarding being alone I found that constantly relocate helps me not feeling stucked or out of place and sometimes when there is a group of people similar to you just being near them makes you feel like.you are with them and make you more relaxed for the approaches.
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Hehe there is an article about that, can't remember which one, but when you feed off their energy. You should really try being the life of the party. Talking to everyone and making them gravitate to you, not the other way around. Im from America. Not that out should make a huge difference but when it comes to guys and they see the woman I pull, jealousy is created very fast. Remember a lot of people in America go out to drink to south the pain and depression. In most countries people drink to be social. Its the same here but, night clubs its like they know guys are there to hit on them. Anyways guys get jealous they will try to manipulate you and be dominant constantly. That's why o say just stay away from them. Let them come to you, see a girl you want to talk to talk to her and then bounce if you over think it you never will do it.
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Update. hit a nightclub Friday alone and it turned out to be very fun. A group of guys were denied entry due to dress code problem( wearing sports shoes) but i got in just fine. None were pulled but I was the most creepy or aggressive guy in the club---i crept out at least 10 girls by grabbing their arms. I squeezed this hot girl's arm not realizing her boyfriend(i assume) was behind her. She just shook my hand off and her boyfriend didn't say anything. I was surprised guys there were so nice that they approached girls by talking first. I mean the music was so loud how do you talk to girls? Some of the girls I squeezed were at first surprised but very acceptive to me. There were at least 10 bouncers/security guys there but none paid attention to what I did. Thanks for maximus' encourage. The club was fine( lots of girls come without guy friends) except their speakers suck. definitely going there next time.
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In all, just keep reading articles. I wouldn't touch them right off the bat unless its like excuse me and pass them or if at the bar same thing then look at them and be like hi. Mostly if.you. can id suggest making.eye contact. I had a woman approach me from the dance floor after she saw me looking at her. Other than that, chase has articles about party girls, and nightclub game all over. Also suggest buying his e book as you have some work needed. No the night clubs aren't so bad, you won't have many problems with guys at the nightclubs unless you harass the girls, or are in a shady club. Personally as a bouncer I have worked in both types. The one with the dress code guys approach all the time and back off guys generally smile like yea she mine and you can't have her. I worked in a really ghetto one, where a guy accidentally brushed hours girls ass while passing by and got hours had breast in with a beer bottle im actually being subpoenaed to that fight as I write this. Just be aware of your surroundings.
To summarize though, just look up those stocks and of you can get his e book.
To summarize though, just look up those stocks and of you can get his e book.
maximus6004 said:
I have read his book multiple times and I don't think my squeezes are any different from a pre-opener in the day game where you touch the forearms of girls. If pre-opener is ok, why grabbing a girl's arm in nightclubs is not?
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Well that opens it up more, I can't really answer that except they are on guard more and should stick with it longer and see what happens. As a bouncer I pull woman easily. When I frequent the bar in normal attire I have to work harder to get their attention.