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having sex with a girl in open relationship

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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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What's up guys,

I met a girl off a dating app thats in an open relationship. Met her out with her friends last night ( don't really like this in most cases) and then brought her home with me.

I asked her some basic questions before I met her like how long shes been open (since Jan) and who's idea was it (hers). I sort of already figured it was her idea since its usually the girls idea in most cases. Besides that I just ask things about her. Sometimes she brings up her BF in convo but I generally don't ask about him and try not to stay talking about him that long.

Anyways, it was a good time but defintely felt a little transactional. We had sex and then she sucked me off til I came. Literally right after that she hops out of bed and is getting changed and stuff. I got the feeling that she looks for another guy on the side to "date" and just doesn't hook up with anybody. She mentioned a previous guy she "dated" although I didn't really ask much about him or what that was like.

How often should I try to be sleeping with her? Like once a week if that? Would definitely like to keep her in the rotation and it's sort of cool she bounces right after we get done lol. Sometimes I'd rather a girl do that then cuddle and have a convo after... which is probably what is not needed with this girl.
 
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