For first date, generally I do bantering over text figuring out the activity the girl like and propose a date for it or intrigue her enough with a teaser of sex talk in passing but then push for date.
More or less
Open-> soft close -> hard close structure
But I try to push for the same day date rather than planning few days ahead.
So if bantering is heavy I will aim for date in next 2-3 hours or next day.
Now after meeting the girl, whether lay or not I am having trouble setting up next date.
Though they end up feeling amazing connection on date and have fun but texting for 2nd date fails.
Where I get 2 dates are the girls who text me back themselve after reaching home.
I think the issue is bantering is not that great like before first date and novelty has worn off.
Or maybe they are just busy.
Idk any idea for how to set up 2nd dates whould be great and what to do and not do to get sucessful 2nd dates and increase ratio of 2nd dates
I guess either having a long first date might lead to not getting 2nd one as well.
More or less
Open-> soft close -> hard close structure
But I try to push for the same day date rather than planning few days ahead.
So if bantering is heavy I will aim for date in next 2-3 hours or next day.
Now after meeting the girl, whether lay or not I am having trouble setting up next date.
Though they end up feeling amazing connection on date and have fun but texting for 2nd date fails.
Where I get 2 dates are the girls who text me back themselve after reaching home.
I think the issue is bantering is not that great like before first date and novelty has worn off.
Or maybe they are just busy.
Idk any idea for how to set up 2nd dates whould be great and what to do and not do to get sucessful 2nd dates and increase ratio of 2nd dates
I guess either having a long first date might lead to not getting 2nd one as well.
