Having trouble staying hard with condoms

[thedude]

Hello gentlemen,

The title says it all.

Lately I can't seem to get rock hard... I stopped watching porn a long time ago too

I think it has to do with how I can't really feel anything with the condom on but there must be a way to mitigate this since not all men have this problem.

Any suggestions?

 

[Man-O]

I watch porn but definetly easier in the act when I've restrained myself a few days. Also, even masturbating without ejaculating makes it tougher to get hard on (porn or not).

Another thing. You might do it too slow.
If I've masturbated the day prior a lay I'll have a hard time but if I do it fast enough with a lot of body-touch (adapted missionary with me or her on top) I can eventually cum and I always end up sweating. I'd also have a hard time keeping hard if they were riding me or another position I wasn't fund of or it simply went too slow or they weren't tight or I couldn't give them the full penetration with hard thrusts I wanted (not that I have a big dick). Also when I focused too much on giving the girls joy (too much in my head) I'd have a hard time.
If I've kept myself from masturbating it's much easier however. I have a friend who didn't cum once with his fb. I've banged a chick for 45 mins straight (the mirror on the toilet got all foggy) because of what I've alrdy mentioned.

Summary:
- More body touch.
- Faster action.
- Positions.
- Less in head. Think about yourself too.

Try to work with it

 

[Smith]

I asked this question a while ago

https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=29&t=8865&sid=697e5032d22ebc1ce45d69f60bf747b9

just relax and be in the moment. Don't worry about staying hard. Anxiety kills your boner.

 

[thedude]

Thanks for all the suggestions and support guys!


I'll put all this to good use this weekend.

Cheers,

CJ