HB 10 OLDER WOMAN - Advice needed

[Anonymous]

Hi, I'm Max and I'm new to this forum.

I'm a 24 year old lad, but look younger, from London, UK and have had a fair degree of success with women. However, I have to admit that this is mainly due to my looks where I've been lucky, as my pure PAU skills are not that well developed! I'm not looking for a steady g/f, just like to date and sleep with lots of girls

Mostly my success has been with girls my own age, but there's a gorgeous HB10 older girl that I need advice as to how to approach and game. I see her quite regularly at a wine bar I go to, always surrounded by men her own age, and by the body language, they aren't getting anyway.

I've been told by someone else that her name is Sheree and she's 36 and currently single. She's a Latin beauty, half Italian apparently, about 5 7 with long dark hair. Stunningly pretty with a lovely slim figure. Very classy dresser and looks very sophisticated.

Any advice guys? Especially concerned about approaching her and getting through the crowd of guys always around her!

Thanks,
MX

 

[Mr. Hawaii]

Whats up max.

I can relate a lot with you. I too dig some ladies. I've had a few successes and a few failures. This one 40sum japanese lady, she worked at a hotel that i had to pass through everyday for work. Absolute stunner. After saying hi a few times, becoming friendly, i asked her out to lunch, and she agreed! We set a date, and we met up at the mall, and i took her to a pretty nice place. I was a bit new to dating and can easily point out the mistakes i made here.

-They don't want to have to walk on eggshells. If you get them out, you have to show that you're a man that won't get hurt, that way you're not a liability. You're more of a confidence boost than a real option at first.
-They crave to feel young again. So sneaking around is a bit exciting, for both of you actually.
-Honestly the biggest thing here is to minimize the age gap as much as possible, she might feel a bit self conscious at first- or on the flip side like shes the one in charge, but you have to treat them like the gap is non existent.

The main hurdle is just shattering the image of you as a boy to her. You're a bit older than me, so it might not be as much of a jump for you, I'm not even 20 yet. But with all of the sugar mamas i've been with (Not a lot), the ones that worked out and the ones that didn't both had this image of me as a boy they can use or not. Breaking this image was kind of the determining factor as to whether it worked out in the end.

Beware, she's experienced. Don't try to play any sort of game, just be honest. But the experience works in your favor in the end
You have one-up on these older guys flocking her, you going to ask her out point blank adds way more to you than them doing it.

Also as an ending note, they like to ask you why you like them. "Are you into older women?" i tried to avoid this question so much because i wasn't sure how to answer it. I ultimately told them, i'm just into attractive women, age isn't a factor for me, they liked that. It's definitely worth it having any kind of relationship with an older woman, i had lot's of fun with the last one.

Good luck bro, let me know how it goes.

 

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the advice

Try my luck on Friday, when she should be there.

Maybe some direct game, let her know I fancy her?

 

[Anonymous]

Hi

Well, had a bit of success with Sheree on Friday. At last, an opportunity arose when the older guys around her left and for a few mins she was on her own. So I moved in with a simple "Hi, My names Max, what's yours" and a with big smile. Got a friendly response back and we chatted. She seemed very relaxed and natural, none of the airs and graces you can get with an HB10? I said that I hoped I wasn't interfering re the other guys and she said. "No, just guys trying to chat me up and buck up the courage to get my number! But none of them asked"" Me "And would you have given it to them?" Her "No way, not my type - too boring and not much to look at" I then decided to get really cheeky and say "You know what they say, boring out of bed, boring in bed!" Her "Very true" and said with a wicked smile.
The obvious age gap was never mentioned, in fact when she asked me to talk about myself I said I was 24 and just looking for a bit of fun and not a long term relationship, she told me she thought I was younger. Turns out she's 37 next month, divorced a year ago with an 11 year old daughter that her ex sees plenty of so that she can go out and enjoy herself. Again. she's not longer for a LT relationship so far. Also, she's very clean living, doesn't smoke or drink, drank water all the time I was with her.

Some friends of hers were due to meet her, so she had to go, but got her number no problem at all. Tested on my phone, so know it's legit.

So far, so good, let's hope I don't screw up the next bit re the call or texts! Act natural seems to be the key on this one!

Max

 

[Tyme2k]

Great job, set the date, make sure you have a closing location, and DO IT!

 

[Anonymous]

Sorry for the late reply, but not much has happened.

I texted her saying "Hi it's Max, let's meet up for 10 pin bowling soon. How's your diary looking?" To which she said "Love to, but going abroad on business on Thu for a month. But let's meet for coffee Wed lunchtime?"

So we did and she turned up looking amazing. I thought to myself that I should raise the sexual tension, especially as I wouldn't see her for at least a month. Didn't need to, because she couldn't wait to get round to discussing sex, especially the perceived inadequacies of other men. I asked her what she had been up to and she said she had been out with a man on a first date who was about her age. Seems he was a nice guy but according to her "useless in bed", so she won't see him again. Must admit, never had a girl talk about that to me, so didn't know what to say other than to laugh. She then went on to explain that in her experience most men didn't really know what to do in bed, including her husband who thought that foreplay was the kick around that football teams have before the match itself! Didn't really say much and then she had to leave, but clearly she's a very sexy lady with a wicked sense of humour. However, we did agree to go bowling and then back round mine for me to cook her a meal afterwards. I didn't say this, but straight to bed with her after that, no messing around.
The 13 year age gap was never mentioned, or even hinted at, but I don't think she's had any experience with younger men. Such a refreshing contrast with the following weekend at a club where my friend and I met up with 2 HB 8 blondes that were 27 and 28. As soon as they found out we were only 24, they switched right off, and all further game yielded nothing. Reminded me of one of Chases's posts re older women. Just wondering what is the typical reaction most guys get, the obvious effect on the 2 blondes or the complete indifference showed by Sheree?

I look forward to your response, and also do you think by plans to "go for it" with Sheree when she gets back is the right one. Also, was contemplating some playful texts to her while she's abroad? It's in India at one of these big IT centres and according to her, the chances of "getting laid" are very remote

Max