LR HB Oneitis

[ray_zorse]

Also, I'm not sure, but after I had sex with her, I totally lost all oneitis feelings, but still value her quality.

LOL! I'm still giggling about this. Conquered the summit man Congratulations on the lay and especially the not losing your cool. Also I liked the idea of throwing her off the scent a bit (date 4 -> not immedately escalating and so forth).

Ray

 

[TheChased]

Damn! Date 3.... so unlucky, I really think you had it there if it wasn't for her migraine!

I think it's cool that you'll try on more dates before giving up on girls on the higher caliber, instead of dumping them on date 2. I think this will better your game with the up top girls, you'll learn more and after a while you'll have them on date 1 or 2 Sometimes you have to give some to get some! But 10 dates is your maximum? Personally I think it's too much.

Cheers
-TC

 

[jdoc]

radeng,

Solid stuff, brother! Glad you managed to seal the deal in the end.

Be generally sexier. Remember to keep your edge. Sometimes my teasing is too fun. I need to add a bit of danger to my deep dives and set sexual and non-judgmental frames earlier so that the escalation takes place under the right premises for moving it all the way early on

Really interesting point. Think I need to give this a try myself and put on a sharper sexual edge for my future dates.

- J

 

[Big Daddy]

Yo radeng,

I clicked on this LR with a huge grin as soon as I read "oneitis" because I assumed it was that girl you talked about before

Good report man. Good thing you also decide to persist for as long as it takes until you bed the girl if you feel that there is decent chances in the process. If you're unattached to the outcome, I see no reason not to. Putting myself into very uncomfortable/unkown positions made quite a difference over time.

Lost the interest in turning this into a LTR, btw?

 

[Seppuku]

Hey Radeng,

I would have nexted after date 2, so you make proof It was worth persisting through. Lesson for me. Also, it's not easy to put things back on track after the failed date 3.

Very good job!

Seppuku

 

[Ree]

Hey Radeng,

I would have nexted after date 2, so you make proof It was worth persisting through. Lesson for me. Also, it's not easy to put things back on track after the failed date 3.

Very good job!

Seppuku

Absolutley feel ya....i usually next after date 1....perhaps this post preaches that persisting patienntly dont mean ur a pussy

 

[Mr.Rob]

Radeng congrats dude you really stuck with it on this one.

Thoroughly impressed that you were able to get things turned around after a semi-failed escalation after date 1. I've gotten that opportunity before in the past and totally wiffed it on the opportunity I was presented to turn things around.

At this point she gets dizzy from problems that come from a recent concussion and has a migraine coming on. She has to leave. Really sucks.

This really bummed me out and really added some drama to the LR. Interesting that she stopped texting as much during this time and you still managed to get her intrigued again.

During the dog park she started giving me “anime eyes.” Those eyes that look at you with just longing. Went back to my place and escalated seamlessly with no resistance.

An amazing feeling that is especially after it was drawn out over such a long period of time.

Sick read man I really enjoyed this.

Keep it pimpin ;0

-Rob