Height as the dealbreaker

[ashwoo]

Hello Everybody,

I have noticed that even after following the principles and techniques mentioned on this website many a times its just that a guy is short makes the girl not date him. I know everywhere people say that there are many fishes in the sea, but frankly I feel the whole dating and meeting new women part is strongly biased against guys who are in the shorter side. Even girls who are shorter themselves than these guys tend to chose taller men. Can someone suggest some way out of this quagmire??

 

[Marty]

Please read all the posts by Tool Vaunswa. That guy really knows what he is doing. Like, big time.

As confirmed here, he is only 5'5", which I believe is well below average for a male of his age cohort in the United States. You work with what you've got.

 

[Knight]

Don't let your thoughts control you. Use your weakness as motivation.

 

[The Tool]

Please read all the posts by Tool Vaunswa. That guy really knows what he is doing. Like, big time.

As confirmed here, he is only 5'5", which I believe is well below average for a male of his age cohort in the United States. You work with what you've got.

Thanks Marty way to make my ego go sky high =) love them ego waffles haha

But yes. HEIGHT MEANS NOTHING!!! ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!! as long as you are confident and know what you are doing you can get results.

Heights of various girls ive dated/ gone on dates with ect. (taller than me) 5ft6 5ft11 6ft1 6ft2 and a basketball player I met who played at the college level 6ft3!! AND NEVER!! did any of these women bring up my height or frown upon it. Its all how you portray yourself

Cheers, The Tool

 

[ashwoo]

Thanks guys, your replies boosted my confidence!!!

 

[Marty]

HEIGHT MEANS NOTHING!!! ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!! as long as you are confident and know what you are doing you can get results.

Heights of various girls ive dated/ gone on dates with ect. (taller than me) 5ft6 5ft11 6ft1 6ft2 and a basketball player I met who played at the college level 6ft3!! AND NEVER!! did any of these women bring up my height or frown upon it. Its all how you portray yourself

College basketball player 6'3"... that is truly amazing, Tool!

Yeah, it's a similar thing with age, I guess: when I was 35 I went on a series of 8 or 9 dates with a 21-year-old girl. I never sealed the deal, because back in those days I didn't know about moving fast, not overproviding, etc. but we were pretty frank with each other and I know she was quite attached to me and came down to Earth hard when I left the country. Never once did she bring up the issue of my age. She had other objections... a fairytale view of love that prevented her from getting together with an attached man, in spite of both our feelings, but age never even came into it.

Thanks guys, your replies boosted my confidence!!!

Ash: glad that our discussion has helped lift your spirits!

-Marty

 

[The Tool]

Thanks Marty.

Yep age and height are just excuses men use that hold them back best to just chug past em

 

[Supah]

Also check out this topic ashwoo

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=3739

it is about the same problem and there are some good tips in there

Cheers, supah

 

[ashwoo]

Thanks Supah, quite insightful posts.