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Help! her place tomorrow, how quickly to make my move?(history with this girl)

LearningMan

Space Monkey
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Backstory, this girl and I hung out for about a month over the summer. Long story short, I didn't move quickly enough and began feeling like she wanted me to be her BF.
We did make out and get bit touchy-feely, but no sex.
As soon as I realized she was looking for a BF, through my actions I made it clear that I wasn't looking for a GF. We didn't hang out anymore since, but still text each other every now and the.n



Recently, she moves into a new place(no roommates!) and invites me over to "watch a movie or something"

I know Chase is a big proponent of "kissing within 5 minutes of being alone" but having a history with this girl, coupled with this being the first time we've hung out in months, will making the move too early seem needy and/or like I'm not a challenge?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Re: Help! her place tomorrow, how quickly to make my move?(history with this gir

If you were to meet a girl, go out for coffee, start holding hands and wanted to be alone, what would you do? Ask her if she wants to go "Watch a movie" at your house...

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All you can do is introduce some kino and take it from there.

More or less a progression:

Greet her with a hug.

High five and hold her hand.

Link her arm in yours.

Side hug on the couch

Arm around her on the couch. (Own that shit. No Yawn move!)

lightly brush inside of forearm with your other hand in a massaging motion

Hands in Hair.

Go for kiss...Adapt as needed. anything rejected, back off and progress slower.
 
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