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- Jul 14, 2013
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Here are a couple of interactions from last night that may help identify my night-game sticking points:
Opened a cute tall black girl. Her friend was right not to us. We chatted for a little bit, then I wanted to move her.
me: Let's go dance.
tall black woman: I'm still finishing up my drink.
me: Oh, come on
I basically gave up and changed the subject. Chatted with her friend a little bit, and then they excused themselves to go to the bathroom. Case of not persisting, giving up too early?
2 European girls in hotel lounge with DJ
me: Hi. {pause, smile} Who are you guys?
girl1: We're good, thanks.
me: No, I asked who are you? {louder now}
girl1: Well, who are you?
me: {pause} I'm snipefield. Where are you visiting from? {bla, boring question I know}
girl1: Sweden.
me: Hmm, why did you choose such a boring city to visit?
girl1: I know, why did we, half to me, half to her friend? {said in a sarcastic way}
me: Come on, relax, be normal. I came to talk to you because you looked bored and looked like easy targets.
girl1: Actually, we're not bored, we're having the times of our lives {mock dance, said sarcastically}
They got distracted by a waitress and turned their backs towards me. Couldn't rack my brain to keep this going in any way.
I want to shoot for a makeout in a club, which shouldn't be that hard, but I'm not having success with it.... I'm not much of a dancer, and don't want to be the fun clown guy either. But then that leaves me with innocuous convo topics that aren't conducive to clubs. Perhaps I should just make up some canned stories with elements of sex in them?
Look forward to the community's ideas on issues.
Opened a cute tall black girl. Her friend was right not to us. We chatted for a little bit, then I wanted to move her.
me: Let's go dance.
tall black woman: I'm still finishing up my drink.
me: Oh, come on
I basically gave up and changed the subject. Chatted with her friend a little bit, and then they excused themselves to go to the bathroom. Case of not persisting, giving up too early?
2 European girls in hotel lounge with DJ
me: Hi. {pause, smile} Who are you guys?
girl1: We're good, thanks.
me: No, I asked who are you? {louder now}
girl1: Well, who are you?
me: {pause} I'm snipefield. Where are you visiting from? {bla, boring question I know}
girl1: Sweden.
me: Hmm, why did you choose such a boring city to visit?
girl1: I know, why did we, half to me, half to her friend? {said in a sarcastic way}
me: Come on, relax, be normal. I came to talk to you because you looked bored and looked like easy targets.
girl1: Actually, we're not bored, we're having the times of our lives {mock dance, said sarcastically}
They got distracted by a waitress and turned their backs towards me. Couldn't rack my brain to keep this going in any way.
I want to shoot for a makeout in a club, which shouldn't be that hard, but I'm not having success with it.... I'm not much of a dancer, and don't want to be the fun clown guy either. But then that leaves me with innocuous convo topics that aren't conducive to clubs. Perhaps I should just make up some canned stories with elements of sex in them?
Look forward to the community's ideas on issues.
