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HELP!!! I'm so confused and slightly frustrated

dsdezzy

Space Monkey
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So there is this girl in my math class. She's really hot and at she always has this great big smile when she sees me and greets me. (I was relatively new to the seduction/pick-up scene mind you. I still kinda am, but I've generally learned from most of my mistakes the first go round)
Anyway, one night she came to my place to do math homework. We were really vibing (good rapport, etc.), when we finished homework we were still talking, she was impressed by my dance moves (don't ask me why about the dancing). We both could feel the conversation dying, I never made a move (something inside me knew I should have, but at the time I didn't know how to), I could kinda tell she expected me to make a move. While she was leaving my apartment, as we got closer to the door, she kinda hesitated to leave and had this "puppy dog" look on her face. I definitely knew I should have made a move. She left.
I know Chase said to forget about her, but were in the same class so that is easier said than done. She still shows signs of interest (touching, eye flirting, compliments, sitting close to me in class), she even asks me what I'm doing later on many occasions. Whenever we agree to something in person, she says she text me (I don't really expect her to, but fro some reason I still see hope, don't know why).
Whenever I do text her, it goes well, but anytime I try to get her to hangout, she either doesn't text back or has an excuse.
So the overlying questions are do I still have a chance if I called, or what, I'm so confused...
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Doctor

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Here is my take on this, but preface this with the fact that I am just starting out with all this as well!

dsdezzy said:
So the overlying questions are do I still have a chance if I called, or what, I'm so confused...

The only way you will answer this question is by doing it. It seems you caused her to become distant by your previous non-action so the only logical way to get her interest again is to show her you are a guy who can take action.

So I guess your objective would be to get her out by herself again (call her up if you need to but stay cool and casual) and show her, this time, you are a guy who takes action when a girl gives signals.

As for the specifics of how to do this, hopefully one of the more experienced guys can help you out here (or look at some articles), it's probably a bit beyond my skill level at the moment.

Oh and if she keeps making excuses then just cut it off, don't be tempted to chase her! Remember your abundance mentality!

Hope this helps.
-Doctor
 

dsdezzy

Space Monkey
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Thanks Doctor! I actually thought of calling her, but I remembered Chase saying not to call. I guess I should've gone with my gut instinct. But that's neither here nor there. I really need to meet new women.
 
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