Help!? What to do!?

[nexus321]

Okay so I met this girl like a few weeks ago she gave me her facebook. I sent her a message like the night when we met but she didn't reply. But a few days later she did and we've been chatting for a while. Yesterday I told her we should hangout. But she said she was busy and had to meet a friend. I think she just made it up. But my question is this, how do I get her to see me again????????????????

 

[pickupq123]

post the convo.

if you asked for her number and she declined and gave you her FB instead, it's usually a polite way of saying she's not interested. let's see that convo tho.

 

[nexus321]

post the convo.

if you asked for her number and she declined and gave you her FB instead, it's usually a polite way of saying she's not interested. let's see that convo tho.

I didn't ask for the number, I asked for her snapchat, then I asked for her facebook.





The text conversation (it's been translated from Norwegian)


Me: Nice meeting you Stine, hope you practice the wave.

Her: Gotten very little sleep! Just fell asleep on the bus, with my mouth open. Haha. But I’ve been measuring things in Os, what about you?


Me: LOl awesome to fall asleep on the bus, I can picture you drooling as you sleep
I played some basketball with some friends. The weather is so nice you have to take advantage of it.

Her: Most likely. Awesome to be outside! I’ve been in the office the whole day

Me: Working hard or hardly working? When you’re done at work, hang out with me downtown?

Her: working hard. I have to hang with a buddy, Woop Woop. Sorry

No worries.....Woop Woop? Are you Chris Rock?

Her: yeeeeeeeees

Me: Gotten my snapchat?

Her: which one?

Me: The one I sent of the horror book. I love it, read it first when I was 14. But I lost the book, saw it on amazon on sale the other day and decided to buy it.

Her: Haven’t gotten it....? Whaaaaaaat

That’s awesome

Me: Weird, could have sworn I sent you the snap....weird.It's about this teen couple that get invited to this halloween party that's thrown by this millionaire. But slowly people start disappearing....

Her: kinda sounds like a chick flick

Me: Hey! well maybe a little bit, but it’s really well written. Brb making a pineapple smoothie.

Her: I only read sci fi and fantasy.

Me: like???
what about comic books?
Her: Brandon sanderson.Haven’t heard anything good or bad about comics

Me: if you like sci fi you should read irredeemable. It’s my fave.

 

[R.A.D.]

Just to give you an option ill give you my opinion based on my recent experiences with chat and texting which improved my results considerably thanks to the help i got here and constant practice, but use your own judgement as im not a text or chat guru by any means. (yet)


I think you should have persisted on convincing her and if she totally said she should see that guy for whatever reason then get her to set a date on that moment.

So it would be something like

You: Working hard or hardly working? When you’re done at work, hang out with me downtown?

Her: working hard. I have to hang with a buddy, Woop Woop. Sorry

You: yes i think thats a perfect thing to tell him/her so you can meet me instead

Here you persist based on her answers and if she totally declines after a while like

Her: sorry i really have to go because bla bla bla

You: Ok lets meet up tomorrow then -- or -- Ok how is the rest of your week coming? --- here you say this on your own style like you can tell her just that or you can tell her you had this great thing to do and it cant wait or whatever way you think is best to make her move

Her: Ok!... or i cant because..............

You: find out about her schedule and guide her until you get a date soon.