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So there's this girl that I met over the internet years ago. I came visit her once, but nothing happened (I had zero experience with girls back then), and shortly after the visit my traveler's visa expried (I'm from Mexico and she lives in the US, even though she's from Venezuela), so I couldn't come visit her again.
Anyways, a little over a year ago, after I had started reading girls chase and practicing the stuff, I decided to try and apply some of it to her over fb messaging with some positive results. She even asked me when I'd be coming to visit again, and offered to pick me up at the station and to let me stay at her house, maybe even sleep with her in her room (she said "chill" instead of "sleep" but that was the implication).
Now my visa was aproved recently so it means I can visit her again. But here's the problem.
About a month ago I mentioned staying with her next time I visited (since she herself offered, like I said), but she responded with this:
Now after this I snapped and started treating her in a clearly cold way, not talking or responding with just "..." on her facebook comments to me. Only did it for like a couple hours/messages, and the next day she talked to me like nothing happened, but it took me like a week to even respond to her again.
Some evidence after that seemed to suggest she moved back with her mom again. Though something she said later also kind of suggested that she sort of moved back and forth between houses.
Now that I have a visa again, I really want something to happen with this girl, but the logistics seem sketchy. Her mentioning seeing a hotel where I could stay, slightly seem to suggest she'd consider staying with me there, maybe, but I'm not sure. And I don't even know how to bring up again a visit in a way that would let her know I want us to spend time alone...
I was thinking of maybe saying in a joking manner that "I don't wanna get killed, so we should meet somewhere safe for me", or something like that. At least if she asks me again when I'm coming. lol Or maybe I should wait and see?
Any help would be appreciated.
Anyways, a little over a year ago, after I had started reading girls chase and practicing the stuff, I decided to try and apply some of it to her over fb messaging with some positive results. She even asked me when I'd be coming to visit again, and offered to pick me up at the station and to let me stay at her house, maybe even sleep with her in her room (she said "chill" instead of "sleep" but that was the implication).
Now my visa was aproved recently so it means I can visit her again. But here's the problem.
About a month ago I mentioned staying with her next time I visited (since she herself offered, like I said), but she responded with this:
Now after this I snapped and started treating her in a clearly cold way, not talking or responding with just "..." on her facebook comments to me. Only did it for like a couple hours/messages, and the next day she talked to me like nothing happened, but it took me like a week to even respond to her again.
Some evidence after that seemed to suggest she moved back with her mom again. Though something she said later also kind of suggested that she sort of moved back and forth between houses.
Now that I have a visa again, I really want something to happen with this girl, but the logistics seem sketchy. Her mentioning seeing a hotel where I could stay, slightly seem to suggest she'd consider staying with me there, maybe, but I'm not sure. And I don't even know how to bring up again a visit in a way that would let her know I want us to spend time alone...
I was thinking of maybe saying in a joking manner that "I don't wanna get killed, so we should meet somewhere safe for me", or something like that. At least if she asks me again when I'm coming. lol Or maybe I should wait and see?
Any help would be appreciated.
