Help with contacting this girl

[ramirezs316]

I met a girl online. She is skeptical of the online thing, so we chatted twice on the phone and I set up a date. We went out the same week and had a really open and honest chat over drinks. We would've gone back to her place, but she lives with her older (and old fashioned) brother. We took a walk outside and it was chilly, so we got physical by hugging and talked about seeing each other again.

She admitted she's the kind of girl who it takes a bunch of calls or messages to contact. I got a hold of her on Wednesday and we tried to set up a second date (we live about forty five minutes away from each other). She agreed to come to my place and said that Friday might work. So I texted her the next day for confirmation and tried calling later but didn't get a response. I called early Friday and left a message. I waited two days then left another message. Its been five days since I last talked to her.

She admitted to me when we first talked that she is a relationship type of girl, so I'm wondering If I didn't immediately get put in the boyfriend category (even though we were both eager to be alone with each other). Should I persist and try to get a hold of her or wait to see if she contacts me? We were in contact consistently for a good week, so I have my doubts now that I'll hear from her. How long should a guy push for a second date? If he does, is there anything to say in text or voicemail to convince her?

 

[Mr. oblivious]

She admitted she's the kind of girl who it takes a bunch of calls or messages to contact.

In other words she is a girl which makes guys chase

She admitted to me when we first talked that she is a relationship type of girl, so I'm wondering If I didn't immediately get put in the boyfriend category (even though we were both eager to be alone with each other). Should I persist and try to get a hold of her or wait to see if she contacts me? We were in contact consistently for a good week, so I have my doubts now that I'll hear from her. How long should a guy push for a second date? If he does, is there anything to say in text or voicemail to convince her?

She obviously is a person who makes guys chase then pursues relationships and you walked right into her ball park.

I think it would be best to just send a message like hey is blah blah good catching up im thinking about having drinks at mine on .... message me if your interested and don't try contact her after that.

and if she does reply play it cool don't act like it was a big deal she reply if not just go out and meet more women

 

[ramirezs316]

She admitted she's the kind of girl who it takes a bunch of calls or messages to contact.

In other words she is a girl which makes guys chase

She admitted to me when we first talked that she is a relationship type of girl, so I'm wondering If I didn't immediately get put in the boyfriend category (even though we were both eager to be alone with each other). Should I persist and try to get a hold of her or wait to see if she contacts me? We were in contact consistently for a good week, so I have my doubts now that I'll hear from her. How long should a guy push for a second date? If he does, is there anything to say in text or voicemail to convince her?

She obviously is a person who makes guys chase then pursues relationships and you walked right into her ball park.

I think it would be best to just send a message like hey is blah blah good catching up im thinking about having drinks at mine on .... message me if your interested and don't try contact her after that.

and if she does reply play it cool don't act like it was a big deal she reply if not just go out and meet more women

Yeah that's what I've pretty much said in voice message. My brother suggested a blunt text like:

We definitely have chemistry but if you're not interested let me know. We're both adults. Thanks.

I've had one similar kind of text work before but I'm not sure. Although I feel like I've already done enough of the lets meet up in voice message. :/