Met a hot blonde through a female friend/acquaintance of mine. This girl I've know is a bit heavy set and has always had a huge crush on me...makes it painfully obvious and even quite uncomfortable at times. I do fairly well with women and most find me reasonably attractive...no movie star or anything but still, not sure why this girl would think she has a chance with me in a million years. It's laughable. Anyways, she has always offered very little value to me socially so I don't really hang out with her much at all...but alas, she has a hot blonde friend (probably an 8 or so) that I started to see in her social media pictures regularly. The next time the bigger girl texted me to hang out and I figured out she was with the hot one, I of course said yes!
The two of them came over to have a drink before going out. As the night goes on and I'm flirting with the hot one, the bigger girl is blatantly "cock blocking" if you will, not even trying to make it subtle. At the end of the night, the hot one gives me her phone to put my number in and the bigger girl sees it and yells "no!"...just immature if you ask me. The hot one wanted to continue the night when we all got back to my place but the bigger one basically dragged her out and said they were going home...I hear her say once the elevator doors close "he just wants to fuck you!".
I did get the hot ones number though and got in touch with her the next day. A week or two later we were texting while out drinking at different bars. She agreed to come meet at my place after closing time and I was able to seal the deal. She made a big deal that I can't tell anybody and that it would be really bad if word ever got back to the bigger girl...that she was a bad friend for doing this blah blah blah....now since then the bigger girl continues to reach out to me to go out like she usually does but the hot one is always with her and secretly texts me that we can't all hang out together. I guess she's worried her friend is going to figure out something is up if we are acting weird around each other.
I haven't been able to meet up with the hot one since then unfortunately, although she reaches out to me every few days or so through innocent snapchats. Last weekend I almost had another chance as she was having a few drinks sounded like and texted me "I miss you" randomly to which I responded "we can fix that"...she then said "come get me" and must have passed out shortly after because she didn't even read my next message asking where she was until the morning.
We chatted the next day via text and I told her about a new restaurant right by my place that's been getting some good buzz. She responded how she's really been wanting to try it and that I should take her there...I guess this would be another "secret" thing that her friend that crushes on me couldn't find out about. Since the hookup, I wasn't getting anywhere with inviting her out to drink or over to my place...she always had an excuse... but yet she continued to reach out to me and keep me around so to speak...did I mess up inviting her out to eat? It's close by my place but feeling maybe she was just waiting to get invited on more of a "date" rather than over to my place? Just trying to figure out this girl's intentions. I thought the secrecy of it all meant she would just want casual sex which is fine with me, but its not happening...do I need to be more upfront and make it an obvious "booty call" to see how she reacts? How would you recommend converting this situation successfully? She is probably torn between being a "good friend" or coming to see me. The "crush" her friend has though is just ridiculous...not even realistic. Am I just left waiting for another drunken booty call that she basically initiates? Thanks in advance for any input or advice!
The two of them came over to have a drink before going out. As the night goes on and I'm flirting with the hot one, the bigger girl is blatantly "cock blocking" if you will, not even trying to make it subtle. At the end of the night, the hot one gives me her phone to put my number in and the bigger girl sees it and yells "no!"...just immature if you ask me. The hot one wanted to continue the night when we all got back to my place but the bigger one basically dragged her out and said they were going home...I hear her say once the elevator doors close "he just wants to fuck you!".
I did get the hot ones number though and got in touch with her the next day. A week or two later we were texting while out drinking at different bars. She agreed to come meet at my place after closing time and I was able to seal the deal. She made a big deal that I can't tell anybody and that it would be really bad if word ever got back to the bigger girl...that she was a bad friend for doing this blah blah blah....now since then the bigger girl continues to reach out to me to go out like she usually does but the hot one is always with her and secretly texts me that we can't all hang out together. I guess she's worried her friend is going to figure out something is up if we are acting weird around each other.
I haven't been able to meet up with the hot one since then unfortunately, although she reaches out to me every few days or so through innocent snapchats. Last weekend I almost had another chance as she was having a few drinks sounded like and texted me "I miss you" randomly to which I responded "we can fix that"...she then said "come get me" and must have passed out shortly after because she didn't even read my next message asking where she was until the morning.
We chatted the next day via text and I told her about a new restaurant right by my place that's been getting some good buzz. She responded how she's really been wanting to try it and that I should take her there...I guess this would be another "secret" thing that her friend that crushes on me couldn't find out about. Since the hookup, I wasn't getting anywhere with inviting her out to drink or over to my place...she always had an excuse... but yet she continued to reach out to me and keep me around so to speak...did I mess up inviting her out to eat? It's close by my place but feeling maybe she was just waiting to get invited on more of a "date" rather than over to my place? Just trying to figure out this girl's intentions. I thought the secrecy of it all meant she would just want casual sex which is fine with me, but its not happening...do I need to be more upfront and make it an obvious "booty call" to see how she reacts? How would you recommend converting this situation successfully? She is probably torn between being a "good friend" or coming to see me. The "crush" her friend has though is just ridiculous...not even realistic. Am I just left waiting for another drunken booty call that she basically initiates? Thanks in advance for any input or advice!
