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Tool-Bearing Hominid
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David Deangelo mentioned the original version of this book in his original work, now they've updated it - essentially its a guide to get guys to chase - its almost a perfect opposite to what we are trying to do - interestingly its a cycle thats repeated itself - back with the original DD advised using the same rules back on the girls.....just as we are doing now.....

We always knew this game playing was going on but its nice to see it explicitly like this.

Might be interesting to discuss:

"Text, phone and Skype conversations should be a maximum of 15 minutes - and you should always be the one to end it. Why? So that you leave him wanting more. "

- this could create some problems - since this is generally what we want to do - how does it end if we are constantly battling? - I suppose our counter rule should be to say max of 10 mins and always end....

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/artic ... itter.html

Also revealing re breakups:

"Your best move is no contact at all. De-friend, unfollow, block and delete him. The best way to cope is to start dating again immediately. We mean tonight or tomorrow - not a month from now."
 

The Tool

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Wow just read the whole article, lol nothing would get done, I much prefer it that a woman shows alot of interest. if she waited that long to text me back I would just move on. thanks for posting that article.

this could create some problems - since this is generally what we want to do - how does it end if we are constantly battling?
It wont end lol if a girl plays these games I definately would know somethings up and id just drop her.
 

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The Tool said:
Wow just read the whole article, lol nothing would get done, I much prefer it that a woman shows alot of interest. if she waited that long to text me back I would just move on. thanks for posting that article.

this could create some problems - since this is generally what we want to do - how does it end if we are constantly battling?
It wont end lol if a girl plays these games I definately would know somethings up and id just drop her.
yes I think its ultimately bad for everyone - its trying to make guys chase but the problem with that is that as soon as the guy does chase the girl looses interest in the guy (this doesn't happen so much when the roles are reversed)

its this age old problem with feminism, it aims to make guys the girls lap dog (chase) - the woman i unhappy till the guy is and tries and tries to beat him into submission (while being unhappy doing so all along) then when she finally gets what she "wants" she gets totally dissatisfied with the man looses all attraction for him and starts to feel like he is "controlling" her because he wants her to stay around and she wants out - so she cheats/leaves - Overall its a BAD IDEA FOR EVERYONE
 

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The Tool said:
Wow just read the whole article, lol nothing would get done, I much prefer it that a woman shows alot of interest. if she waited that long to text me back I would just move on. thanks for posting that article.

this could create some problems - since this is generally what we want to do - how does it end if we are constantly battling?
It wont end lol if a girl plays these games I definately would know somethings up and id just drop her.

Agreed with Tool, your gut will definitely tell you something isn't right with the girl. On an interesting note though, if a girl really took that approach though Chase and Ricardus already prepared us and we'd be on to other girls. I just set up team frames to avoid all these conflicts from the gecko. On a final note, I know what I'm looking for in a woman and I filter many women out.
 

Light

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Thanks for sharing. It was very interesting to read!

This was definitely written by a strong woman who knew how to wrap weak men around her fingers! But very likely to be a frustrated woman who never really found the man she wants! lol!!
 

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Light said:
Thanks for sharing. It was very interesting to read!

This was definitely written by a strong woman who knew how to wrap weak men around her fingers! But very likely to be a frustrated woman who never really found the man she wants! lol!!
thats my point exactly-its a self destructive method which will result in less happiness all around - unless maybe a few woman that manage to rip off a husband after using him for everything she can - I pity the guys that fall for this! AND THE GIRLS that use it...

lol theres more - this is from mens health! See how ridiculous the conventional advice out there is!
Put in the Time

The three-date rule is not reliable. The majority of women we polled said they typically wait eight or more dates before sleeping with a man. She'll drop hints when she's ready. Your green light: When she creates total privacy for the two of you, says Darcy Luadzers, Ph.D., a sex therapist and the author of The Ten Minute Sexual Solution. Has she invited you over for dinner and mentioned that her roommates are out of town? Take the hint.
 

Franco

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Hey everyone,

There should be no fear here. What these women have written in these articles you can definitely find all over the internet. I believe that every girl at her core KNOWS what she should be doing with a guy she likes (or loves), but it's the fact that women are more emotional creatures than men that they are often unable to follow all of these rules.

This is why it is highly emphasized on this website that you build up the skill of picking up women. When you are a confident enough man to be able to go out on a given weekend and say to yourself, "I'm taking home a gorgeous woman tonight," then all of these fears of chasing and losing women become non-existent. You become a powerful man at the core, and ultimately you "win" all of these petty emotional battles because your emotions become less involved than the woman's.

Mainstream society actually teaches women to be extremely emotional and not forget the men that give them the strongest emotional experiences. You see it in almost every movie -- the girl has strong feelings for the man while the man has to complete his mission (or eventually come around) so that she can fall in love with him (sometimes again). It is because of this mainstream view that we, as men, have the advantage if we do not succumb to our emotions the way that women normally do. Remember, the women are supposed to do the missing. The men are the ones to be missed.

Anyway, it's good to read articles like this so that you can anticipate the fact that women are also playing these games. But remember that, at the core, women ultimately succumb to their emotions. It's up to you to provide the strongest emotions to her while keeping your own emotions in check. That is how sexy men become desirable and sexy women become the chasers.

Anyway, thanks for the post, girlsfollow! It's always interesting to see what advice the girls are reading. ;)

- Franco
 

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Franco said:
Hey everyone,

There should be no fear here. What these women have written in these articles you can definitely find all over the internet. I believe that every girl at her core KNOWS what she should be doing with a guy she likes (or loves), but it's the fact that women are more emotional creatures than men that they are often unable to follow all of these rules.

This is why it is highly emphasized on this website that you build up the skill of picking up women. When you are a confident enough man to be able to go out on a given weekend and say to yourself, "I'm taking home a gorgeous woman tonight," then all of these fears of chasing and losing women become non-existent. You become a powerful man at the core, and ultimately you "win" all of these petty emotional battles because your emotions become less involved than the woman's.

Mainstream society actually teaches women to be extremely emotional and not forget the men that give them the strongest emotional experiences. You see it in almost every movie -- the girl has strong feelings for the man while the man has to complete his mission (or eventually come around) so that she can fall in love with him (sometimes again). It is because of this mainstream view that we, as men, have the advantage if we do not succumb to our emotions the way that women normally do. Remember, the women are supposed to do the missing. The men are the ones to be missed.

Anyway, it's good to read articles like this so that you can anticipate the fact that women are also playing these games. But remember that, at the core, women ultimately succumb to their emotions. It's up to you to provide the strongest emotions to her while keeping your own emotions in check. That is how sexy men become desirable and sexy women become the chasers.

Anyway, thanks for the post, girlsfollow! It's always interesting to see what advice the girls are reading. ;)

- Franco

Well said Franco. Totally Agree.
 

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Franco said:
Hey everyone,

There should be no fear here. What these women have written in these articles you can definitely find all over the internet. I believe that every girl at her core KNOWS what she should be doing with a guy she likes (or loves), but it's the fact that women are more emotional creatures than men that they are often unable to follow all of these rules.

This is why it is highly emphasized on this website that you build up the skill of picking up women. When you are a confident enough man to be able to go out on a given weekend and say to yourself, "I'm taking home a gorgeous woman tonight," then all of these fears of chasing and losing women become non-existent. You become a powerful man at the core, and ultimately you "win" all of these petty emotional battles because your emotions become less involved than the woman's.

Mainstream society actually teaches women to be extremely emotional and not forget the men that give them the strongest emotional experiences. You see it in almost every movie -- the girl has strong feelings for the man while the man has to complete his mission (or eventually come around) so that she can fall in love with him (sometimes again). It is because of this mainstream view that we, as men, have the advantage if we do not succumb to our emotions the way that women normally do. Remember, the women are supposed to do the missing. The men are the ones to be missed.

Anyway, it's good to read articles like this so that you can anticipate the fact that women are also playing these games. But remember that, at the core, women ultimately succumb to their emotions. It's up to you to provide the strongest emotions to her while keeping your own emotions in check. That is how sexy men become desirable and sexy women become the chasers.

Anyway, thanks for the post, girlsfollow! It's always interesting to see what advice the girls are reading. ;)

- Franco
Yes this is right on. Both of us play the game but men are more in control of their emotions (likely a result of both societal conditioning and genetics), so we ultimately stick to the rules and the girls often can't so as long as we train to we will win. Creating the strong emotions is the tough though - so while we have an advantage it also takes more work on our part.....
 
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