Here's How You Can Upgrade Your Sexual Vibe
Coming up in the GAME, I had a problem I'd run into again, and again, and again. I'd charm up the ladies, and make them lust for me, but I just didn't know what to do next. With my Fundamentals handled, I'd get past the opener, deep-dive here and there, and get compliance.
And so we'd banter, and I'd get to know a Girl better, and after about 5 minutes, set up a date and grab the phone number. She's totally gonna soak the sheets right? Wrong! It seemed to me, that the woman I connect with VERY well in the beginning of the interactions got real upset when I took their phone numbers. REAL upset. Some women would walk away with an angry look on their face. Some women would give me the wrong number. And most... Just wouldn't reply. I'd scratch my head... I couldn't understand the sudden change in result from women...
"I used to be able to set up dates... What's up with the sudden change?"
After analyzing my Seductions, I found the root problem.
Turns out... I was coming off Too Sexual! Women didn't want me to walk away with their phone number. They wanted me to take THEM!
"Wait a minute..." I thought to myself "Women are ready that QUICK?!"That's when I realized
First Night Lays Are EASIER.
But what was I DOING that made these women ready before I was aware? Let's break it down! Here's How You Come Off So Sexy... That Women HATE IT When You Take Their Phone Number
The Fundamentals
Build Compliance
Physical Escalation
Get Nasty
THE FUNDAMENTALS
If you're not working on your Fundamentals, you're slacking bro. Even when you're Advanced, it's something you must always be conscious of.
Dress Well
When you wake up in the morning, you choose an outfit you feel sexy in. Why? Because you want girls checking you out, and liking your style before you even say "hello". Take an average man, place him in some sweatpants and a hoodie, give him some workout sneakers, and I assure you he won't get as much initial reception from his interactions if he were in a badass black leather jacket with zippers, dark ripped jeans, a cool necklace and some rockstar boots. Or maybe he'd rather go with a classy cardigan and add some accessories for some edge. Depends on his style. How you dress is how people initially perceive you. You can change their opinions over time, but during street game? The window is only open for so long. Whatever your style is, make sure you love what you wear.
Physique
Can we all agree that a man with muscles is simply more sexy that a man without them? Yes? Cool. You don't need to be Arnold Schwarzenegger big, but just make sure you're working out. Even if you're not at your ideal sexy fit yet, just keep at it. Working out builds testosterone, which is useful for making you go out there and take more risks, and increases your sex drive. No watching porn! After a great workout, you feel energized, sexy, and confident. Your clothes start fitting better too
Voice
Your voice is incredibly effective during everything you do. When you speak really, really slow, you come across as more calm and confident. It also helps you FEEL more calm and confident. That's sexy. Sometimes you get feedback like
"You seem so chill and laid-back... What's your secret?"
"You're Calm... But You're Crazy! Hehe!"
"Here you go Boss!" (after making orders and waiting)
Your voice is part of who you are, and how you are DEFINED.
Speak... Slow. Here Is An Example... Of how to use. Pauses. In your sentences...
By speaking slow, it also helps you control how loud, and how sexy you want to make your voice (bedroom voice should have a little more purrr to it, and almost whisper like. But then again... I'm sure everyone has their own variations)
Walk Slow
No matter where you are, Walk Like You Run The Town.
*Shoulders Back
*Chest Out
*Chin Up
*Smoove
When you are walking up to a woman, she must know the deal, before you even speak. However you feel comfortable walking... Just make sure it's slow and relaxed. Effortless.
Eye-Contact
As the common saying goes...
"The eyes are the windows to the soul"
And it's true. You want to be holding eye-contact as much as she is comfortable with. Never look down. Build suspense and make her wet from holding eye-contact. Remember... Non-Verbals are more important than the Verbals. If you're feeling a sudden tingle in your pants, that's most likely emotional contagion. She feels it too... Tenfold. She could be talking about how much she loves to draw, but you hold some piercing (non-menacing) eye-contact with her, she might be ready to pull. And here's another one. Scroll down to a woman's lips as she's speaking. It gets them wet. Why? Who knows... But it works!
The Fundamentals cannot be stressed enough. They are important. Practice them before you even think about having a Sexual Vibe.
BUILD COMPLIANCE
Getting compliance from women is to see where you're at with them. Women who won't comply aren't that attracted to you, they just like the attention (or you're asking for too much compliance) There are numerous ways to get compliance within the first 10 seconds
*Make her do a spin
*Get her to say her name multiple times
*Ask her for a sip of her drink
*Tell her "give me your hand"
*Ask her to hold something for you (like your cell phone, ya lil freak McNasties)
*etc
If it's something you need practice on, tell yourself you're going to make women do things for you within the first 10 seconds of an interaction. Compliance molds you as more dominant and attractive. She doesn't just spin for every guy she meets. You must be some catch
PHYSICALLY ESCALATE
Ahh Physical Escalation! Haha! My favorite. If you haven't checked out the post on
"You Had Me At Hello"
I kiss women's necks after the opener. Maybe some men like a more subtle form of game. What if you meet her at a bus stop and you can't kiss her neck immediately? With women sitting down... The hands slide right onto her thighs after the introduction. And then only one thing to do from there... Massage her sensitive legs. If that's too Bold, try holding a woman's hands as you are speaking to her. Massage her hands play with them, tell her that they're soft and feminine, whatever. Her hands are sensitive as well. Women are just Walking Erogenous Zones. The longer you wait to get physical... The more awkward it gets. Remember, WOMEN WANT YOU TO MOVE FAST! Personally... I believe this is the hardest part of GAME. What if she rejects you for being "creepy". If you need more practice like I did, make it your goal. Here's a mentality to help you adopt more finesse.
"I will walk up to this girl, and I will see how far I can take it. No Phone Numbers. I will push the boundaries of what is socially acceptable. Either I lay her Tonight, or I will build a few reference points and learn from them. She's not that special, but advancing my skills as a Playboy is..."
Or whatever your reason for getting good with women. It absolutely will change as your skills develop.
Try to Physically Escalate with women immediately! And then you come to realize that "taking risks" aren't really all that risky at all, they just make the process easier.
GET NASTY
Sometimes, you don't know where you're at with a Seduction. You can't tell if a girl likes you, or if she just likes the attention from the emotional validation. Am I going to walk to this girl's apartment... Only to have her change her mind and waste my time? Are we on the same page here? Let's see where she's at. Let's make it easy for her, and I. Throw her a Sexual Compliment or some Sexual Imagery and see if she's with it
"Your lips... Are so juicy and tempting. I can't wait... To taste them"
"What is your favorite flavor of ice-cream?"
"Strawberry"
"Would you like it... If I dripped Strawberry ice-cream into your chest... and lick it... from your nipples down to your clitoris?"
"You have no idea... How good it's gonna feel... When I eat your pussy"
See how she reacts. Is she turned on to the edge? Or should I have picked up that spanish mami with the viscous curves that was eyeing me instead?
This takes some cojones to pull off, and definitely some practice. You can't be afraid to lose the girl. Sometimes, her anti-slut defense goes up. It's a Gamble. But that's the point. The ones who want to play the facade of "good girls" get NEXTED!
If you want to practice Bold sexual comments, try using them on the girls who already reject you. Here are a couple of examples
"Excuse Me..."
(Girl keeps walking)
"So you don't want me to take rub your clitoris...till you're dropping wet... With cum?"
"Excuse Me..."
(Girl keeps walking)
"So you don't want me to Dominate your Pussy?"
Eventually you learn to look for the girls looking for you... But until that happens, you'll get rejected... A lot... But it's funny. You'd be SURPRISED at the reactions you get from women who once rejected you. Smiling from Ear to Ear "I'm sorry... what?" Those naughty little sluts. I Love Them. Keep in mind that this type of GAME is definitely not for everyone. I can't imagine James Bond saying something so Bold. His GAME is much, much more subtle, and has more of a "it just happened" type of vibe to it. You sacrifice subtle smooth charm for raw edgy dominance. Maybe it fits your style, maybe it doesn't.
It's a lot I know.
LET'S RECAP
-If you don't have your Fundamentals handled FIRST, than everything you read was completely useless. Make sure you go out wearing something that fits your personality, that you feel sexy wearing. Workout. Improve your physique, and FEEL sexy. Speak... Slow... And... Powerful. Relax your words, and barely speak. You come across as more mysterious and intriguing. Walk with your shoulders back, chest out, chin up. Walk slow. When it comes to eye-contact, hold it. It displays dominance (weak men don't hold eye-contact at all) and turns women on. Look passionately into her eyes. And look at her lips as she's talking. Not always, just a couple of times is cool.
-Build Compliance and build attraction. Get women to do simple tasks and increase attraction
-Get Physical. How do you expect to shag between her thighs if you can't caress them first? Haha! Touch women as soon as possible. It doesn't always need to start off sexual. Something simple such as building hands, or even brushing her shoulders. Just do something. And build it.
-Get Nasty. Definitely not for every type of Seducer. Hit or Miss. Usually Hit if you use it at the right moment. Be sure you're ready to pull soon though.
-Again. Practice on Fundamentals. That's what makes you feel Sexy in the first place
Overall... Your Sexual Vibe is definitely something you want to have surging from your body. You walk around with an energy of Sex. Women can just tell you get girls, that's instant pre-selection.
And remember... women will test you
Always keep your cool. Always.
~DANGER!
Coming up in the GAME, I had a problem I'd run into again, and again, and again. I'd charm up the ladies, and make them lust for me, but I just didn't know what to do next. With my Fundamentals handled, I'd get past the opener, deep-dive here and there, and get compliance.
And so we'd banter, and I'd get to know a Girl better, and after about 5 minutes, set up a date and grab the phone number. She's totally gonna soak the sheets right? Wrong! It seemed to me, that the woman I connect with VERY well in the beginning of the interactions got real upset when I took their phone numbers. REAL upset. Some women would walk away with an angry look on their face. Some women would give me the wrong number. And most... Just wouldn't reply. I'd scratch my head... I couldn't understand the sudden change in result from women...
"I used to be able to set up dates... What's up with the sudden change?"
After analyzing my Seductions, I found the root problem.
Turns out... I was coming off Too Sexual! Women didn't want me to walk away with their phone number. They wanted me to take THEM!
"Wait a minute..." I thought to myself "Women are ready that QUICK?!"That's when I realized
First Night Lays Are EASIER.
But what was I DOING that made these women ready before I was aware? Let's break it down! Here's How You Come Off So Sexy... That Women HATE IT When You Take Their Phone Number
The Fundamentals
Build Compliance
Physical Escalation
Get Nasty
THE FUNDAMENTALS
If you're not working on your Fundamentals, you're slacking bro. Even when you're Advanced, it's something you must always be conscious of.
Dress Well
When you wake up in the morning, you choose an outfit you feel sexy in. Why? Because you want girls checking you out, and liking your style before you even say "hello". Take an average man, place him in some sweatpants and a hoodie, give him some workout sneakers, and I assure you he won't get as much initial reception from his interactions if he were in a badass black leather jacket with zippers, dark ripped jeans, a cool necklace and some rockstar boots. Or maybe he'd rather go with a classy cardigan and add some accessories for some edge. Depends on his style. How you dress is how people initially perceive you. You can change their opinions over time, but during street game? The window is only open for so long. Whatever your style is, make sure you love what you wear.
Physique
Can we all agree that a man with muscles is simply more sexy that a man without them? Yes? Cool. You don't need to be Arnold Schwarzenegger big, but just make sure you're working out. Even if you're not at your ideal sexy fit yet, just keep at it. Working out builds testosterone, which is useful for making you go out there and take more risks, and increases your sex drive. No watching porn! After a great workout, you feel energized, sexy, and confident. Your clothes start fitting better too
Voice
Your voice is incredibly effective during everything you do. When you speak really, really slow, you come across as more calm and confident. It also helps you FEEL more calm and confident. That's sexy. Sometimes you get feedback like
"You seem so chill and laid-back... What's your secret?"
"You're Calm... But You're Crazy! Hehe!"
"Here you go Boss!" (after making orders and waiting)
Your voice is part of who you are, and how you are DEFINED.
Speak... Slow. Here Is An Example... Of how to use. Pauses. In your sentences...
By speaking slow, it also helps you control how loud, and how sexy you want to make your voice (bedroom voice should have a little more purrr to it, and almost whisper like. But then again... I'm sure everyone has their own variations)
Walk Slow
No matter where you are, Walk Like You Run The Town.
*Shoulders Back
*Chest Out
*Chin Up
*Smoove
When you are walking up to a woman, she must know the deal, before you even speak. However you feel comfortable walking... Just make sure it's slow and relaxed. Effortless.
Eye-Contact
As the common saying goes...
"The eyes are the windows to the soul"
And it's true. You want to be holding eye-contact as much as she is comfortable with. Never look down. Build suspense and make her wet from holding eye-contact. Remember... Non-Verbals are more important than the Verbals. If you're feeling a sudden tingle in your pants, that's most likely emotional contagion. She feels it too... Tenfold. She could be talking about how much she loves to draw, but you hold some piercing (non-menacing) eye-contact with her, she might be ready to pull. And here's another one. Scroll down to a woman's lips as she's speaking. It gets them wet. Why? Who knows... But it works!
The Fundamentals cannot be stressed enough. They are important. Practice them before you even think about having a Sexual Vibe.
BUILD COMPLIANCE
Getting compliance from women is to see where you're at with them. Women who won't comply aren't that attracted to you, they just like the attention (or you're asking for too much compliance) There are numerous ways to get compliance within the first 10 seconds
*Make her do a spin
*Get her to say her name multiple times
*Ask her for a sip of her drink
*Tell her "give me your hand"
*Ask her to hold something for you (like your cell phone, ya lil freak McNasties)
*etc
If it's something you need practice on, tell yourself you're going to make women do things for you within the first 10 seconds of an interaction. Compliance molds you as more dominant and attractive. She doesn't just spin for every guy she meets. You must be some catch
PHYSICALLY ESCALATE
Ahh Physical Escalation! Haha! My favorite. If you haven't checked out the post on
"You Had Me At Hello"
I kiss women's necks after the opener. Maybe some men like a more subtle form of game. What if you meet her at a bus stop and you can't kiss her neck immediately? With women sitting down... The hands slide right onto her thighs after the introduction. And then only one thing to do from there... Massage her sensitive legs. If that's too Bold, try holding a woman's hands as you are speaking to her. Massage her hands play with them, tell her that they're soft and feminine, whatever. Her hands are sensitive as well. Women are just Walking Erogenous Zones. The longer you wait to get physical... The more awkward it gets. Remember, WOMEN WANT YOU TO MOVE FAST! Personally... I believe this is the hardest part of GAME. What if she rejects you for being "creepy". If you need more practice like I did, make it your goal. Here's a mentality to help you adopt more finesse.
"I will walk up to this girl, and I will see how far I can take it. No Phone Numbers. I will push the boundaries of what is socially acceptable. Either I lay her Tonight, or I will build a few reference points and learn from them. She's not that special, but advancing my skills as a Playboy is..."
Or whatever your reason for getting good with women. It absolutely will change as your skills develop.
Try to Physically Escalate with women immediately! And then you come to realize that "taking risks" aren't really all that risky at all, they just make the process easier.
GET NASTY
Sometimes, you don't know where you're at with a Seduction. You can't tell if a girl likes you, or if she just likes the attention from the emotional validation. Am I going to walk to this girl's apartment... Only to have her change her mind and waste my time? Are we on the same page here? Let's see where she's at. Let's make it easy for her, and I. Throw her a Sexual Compliment or some Sexual Imagery and see if she's with it
"Your lips... Are so juicy and tempting. I can't wait... To taste them"
"What is your favorite flavor of ice-cream?"
"Strawberry"
"Would you like it... If I dripped Strawberry ice-cream into your chest... and lick it... from your nipples down to your clitoris?"
"You have no idea... How good it's gonna feel... When I eat your pussy"
See how she reacts. Is she turned on to the edge? Or should I have picked up that spanish mami with the viscous curves that was eyeing me instead?
This takes some cojones to pull off, and definitely some practice. You can't be afraid to lose the girl. Sometimes, her anti-slut defense goes up. It's a Gamble. But that's the point. The ones who want to play the facade of "good girls" get NEXTED!
If you want to practice Bold sexual comments, try using them on the girls who already reject you. Here are a couple of examples
"Excuse Me..."
(Girl keeps walking)
"So you don't want me to take rub your clitoris...till you're dropping wet... With cum?"
"Excuse Me..."
(Girl keeps walking)
"So you don't want me to Dominate your Pussy?"
Eventually you learn to look for the girls looking for you... But until that happens, you'll get rejected... A lot... But it's funny. You'd be SURPRISED at the reactions you get from women who once rejected you. Smiling from Ear to Ear "I'm sorry... what?" Those naughty little sluts. I Love Them. Keep in mind that this type of GAME is definitely not for everyone. I can't imagine James Bond saying something so Bold. His GAME is much, much more subtle, and has more of a "it just happened" type of vibe to it. You sacrifice subtle smooth charm for raw edgy dominance. Maybe it fits your style, maybe it doesn't.
It's a lot I know.
LET'S RECAP
-If you don't have your Fundamentals handled FIRST, than everything you read was completely useless. Make sure you go out wearing something that fits your personality, that you feel sexy wearing. Workout. Improve your physique, and FEEL sexy. Speak... Slow... And... Powerful. Relax your words, and barely speak. You come across as more mysterious and intriguing. Walk with your shoulders back, chest out, chin up. Walk slow. When it comes to eye-contact, hold it. It displays dominance (weak men don't hold eye-contact at all) and turns women on. Look passionately into her eyes. And look at her lips as she's talking. Not always, just a couple of times is cool.
-Build Compliance and build attraction. Get women to do simple tasks and increase attraction
-Get Physical. How do you expect to shag between her thighs if you can't caress them first? Haha! Touch women as soon as possible. It doesn't always need to start off sexual. Something simple such as building hands, or even brushing her shoulders. Just do something. And build it.
-Get Nasty. Definitely not for every type of Seducer. Hit or Miss. Usually Hit if you use it at the right moment. Be sure you're ready to pull soon though.
-Again. Practice on Fundamentals. That's what makes you feel Sexy in the first place
Overall... Your Sexual Vibe is definitely something you want to have surging from your body. You walk around with an energy of Sex. Women can just tell you get girls, that's instant pre-selection.
And remember... women will test you
Always keep your cool. Always.
~DANGER!
