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This two things tend to be the core of men, especially given the fact we are growing up with Disney and being a hero is a great thing.
The thing is, it's inescapable and it is not a thing you can change overnight. How does one work with it or counter "Heroism" and "WhiteKnight"?
One thing i know is objectivity, When your emotions are driven, objectivity is like guidance. The mind is like pipes while emotions are water. A lot of people control the water, and when your emotions are high, water is hard to contain, So you build new pipes and slow down your momentum of water.
Don't control things you cannot win, Understand it and work with it. Are there any better ways to look at it? Just like being busy means totally fill up schedule and to another means, they are not interested. Ways to work with this?
Zac
The thing is, it's inescapable and it is not a thing you can change overnight. How does one work with it or counter "Heroism" and "WhiteKnight"?
One thing i know is objectivity, When your emotions are driven, objectivity is like guidance. The mind is like pipes while emotions are water. A lot of people control the water, and when your emotions are high, water is hard to contain, So you build new pipes and slow down your momentum of water.
Don't control things you cannot win, Understand it and work with it. Are there any better ways to look at it? Just like being busy means totally fill up schedule and to another means, they are not interested. Ways to work with this?
Zac