It's almost always loud in the venues guys will do this in, so whatever he says go:
"WHAT!?" kind of annoyed squinting eyes like "I didn't hear you"
As he's in middle of repeating what he said like a tool (already losing confidence) interrupt him:
"Why are you talking to us?"
This is the best and easiest way to amog any tough guy -
getting them to repeat themselves.
It always works, even for guys that are squaring you up for a fight.
Case in point: Two guys tried squaring up with me in the gym about a month ago. I just said, “Huh?” To what they said. They tried repeating themselves and I interrupted them with a “huh?” again and it immediately crumpled their confidence, and they turned around and headed in the other direction. Massive roided out guy, just deflated.
Where it works best:
The telling them you didn’t hear or just acting it, works best if there’s:
1. abit of music/sounds/noise/distractions in the shared environment or
2. there’s at least a little bit of distance between you two
Combatting this technique:
However, I have had this technique (of saying or implying they can’t hear me) used to AMOG me a number of times when I was younger, usually by older and more experienced guys while I’m out at clubs, parties or festivales here in Australia.
Here’s how I combat it when guys do this me:
When they do the, “I can’t hear you” or “Huh”
You respond with the exact same, interrupt whatever their response is with a relaxed but loud “huh”.
The interruption + the same technique used back on them will turn the tables on their amog or just genuinely confuse them.
Interrupting/Ignoring
One of the best techniques that I haven’t really seen mentioned is also one of the simplest.
If a guy comes over and starts trying to amog you and you can’t reasonably use the above technique because:
1. It’s fairly quiet & not alot of noise/sounds in the environment because it’s the smoking area, or some other daytime event, etc.
2. You’re fairly close to each other
Amog them here by simply:
1. Interrupting whatever they’re saying, keeping firm eye contact with the girl you’re seducing and raising the volume of your voice in a comfortable and relaxed way that drowns out whatever amog is saying. Do it with a slight smirk or smile like you’re having fun.
2. Continue the conversation you were already having with the girl with a strong and calm frame like the amog never interrupted or existed and make it feel like abit of fun, like she’s in on you - a subtle ‘Us Vs. The World’ frame. And you both can have a laugh about it later.
It should be noted, that when you raise your voice - it should be imperceptably louder and remain cool, calm, relaxed and fun and shouldn’t have any tone of frustration, strain, annoyance, anger, spite or being in any way despairing or butthurt. Just chill
Just rinse + repeat if they start trying to talk again. It’s the most relaxed and dominant thing you can do in a quiet, relaxed environment.
Why would you let some strange dude say a whole sentence to a girl you’re talking to who’s trying to amog you?
This is just shutting it down quickly and calmly before any amoging really begins.
Usually guys just slink away defeated and dejected and usually leave the venue or area shortly after this is done.
If that doesn’t work for whatever reason (it should!), then I think Chase’s ‘Whispering in her ear & laughing with her’ technique is the last nuclear option that should work.
You also have a natural segue or lead-in to the ear whispering from when he continues talking when you’ve interrupted him and he keeps going and everything gets too difficult to hear.
I think the ‘Whispering in the ear’ is great tech for guys trying to amog you with fuckbuddies/plates you’re with, but I have rarely used this because I don’t go out to publicly crowded social places with fuckbuddies that much.
Picking her up & Moving her
Another fun one that I’ve done, and a few of my friends have done when a guy comes over and approaches is:
Pick her up in a bear hug like way, and walk her further away and out of earshot or out of sight/or both of the guy in question. Do it in a fun way with a big smile on your face and give her a cheek kiss when you put her back down, but that’s my style - optional for you guys.
Then the guy can’t really do anything, looks silly, impotent and powerless and you look dominant, masculine and fun for taking control.
If the guys starting moving towards where she is, he’s already lost frame and you can just do it again and he looks even worse, like he’s chasing.
This is good for really really loud environments, as opposed to the above.
The interruption + not hearing technique is used to perfection throughout the Tv series ‘Shoresy’ by the main character, a compilation:
