High school help!

[Lucky]

This year I don't know why but it seems I've taken a huge fall in the social department before where I may have had balls of steel and been able to go crazy it just seems I lost it. And after I started out helping a new kid get started at my school I let my own social skills deteriorate how am I meant to regain my confidence and my former skills.

Oh and other questions are...
How to deal with challengers in the social arena at high school?
How to change social reputation at high school?
And...
How to get myself pumped up for pua
Thanks in advance Lucky (;

 

[Sandman]

Re: Make move now or move on? (More of a personal beginner question)

If you only saw each other in passing (just small chit-chat) I'd say there's a good chance you didn't miss any escalation windows and you're good to go!

If you were constantly talking and texting you might've end up in friend zone.

Either way, make your move and find out

Btw, just because you're in friendzone it doesn't mean it's impossible to sleep with her it's just 100 times harder lol. I'll share a personal anectode.

There was a really sexy girl in my class last year. She was interested me from the begining. I deep dived her (as I do with everyone). I had a girlfriend at the time so didn't make a move. She kissed me on her birthday (she had a fight with her boyfriend). Joked about how hot I am, how we would be great together but I probably just saw her as a friend. Not long after I broke up with my gf and made a move on her. But being out of practise I fumbled and couldn't close. I was in friendzone. I started to get my bearings with other girls and continued to make moves on her throughout the year (including some makeouts and one mostly-naked massage we gave each other) couldn't close / get past lmr despite she saw my success with other girls / pre - selection. I could only fuck her near the end of year. So muuuch harder dude. I'm sure if I just made a move in the begining I would have an easy lay. But being in the friendzone I had to put Herculean efforts, pre- selection, rock solid frame control and non-neediness...

So make your move now

 

[Sandman]

I posted this in another thread but seems like op deleted the thread (?) so my message ended up here. Or I did something wrong either way apologies for the confusion

 

[Lucky]

Oh don't worry about it I changed the topic because I thought that I should probably move on but you've inspired me more thanks for that.