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Hey guys,
So here's a question I don't see discussed a lot.
What is a good "hit rate"? Most PUA's give off the impression that if you fail with a girl, you are a pathetic loser and will die alone. It doesn't matter if she isn't interested in meeting anyone, has a boyfriend, has a husband, has a sugardaddy or ANY other reason...
PUA coaches make you feel like an absolute failure in life if you don't get a particular girl... which is pretty much the opposite what what their job is (i.e. they're taking guys who need help socially and are probably sad because of it and making them feel worse!).
Anyway, so Chase touched on it in an old post where he said as a newbie, you'd expect 1 in every 10-15 girls to be really into you but then you improve and also learn to pick the right targets and the "hit rate" will improve again.
What do people here think of this? Do you need to learn to pick the right targets while also refining your game... and even then, surely EVERY girl is not there to be won. Everyone has things going on in their lives, we're not all pre-programmed robots who just need the right buttons pressed... surely some girls will just not be available or interested when you approach and it's not a total failure at life.
What do you all think?
So here's a question I don't see discussed a lot.
What is a good "hit rate"? Most PUA's give off the impression that if you fail with a girl, you are a pathetic loser and will die alone. It doesn't matter if she isn't interested in meeting anyone, has a boyfriend, has a husband, has a sugardaddy or ANY other reason...
PUA coaches make you feel like an absolute failure in life if you don't get a particular girl... which is pretty much the opposite what what their job is (i.e. they're taking guys who need help socially and are probably sad because of it and making them feel worse!).
Anyway, so Chase touched on it in an old post where he said as a newbie, you'd expect 1 in every 10-15 girls to be really into you but then you improve and also learn to pick the right targets and the "hit rate" will improve again.
What do people here think of this? Do you need to learn to pick the right targets while also refining your game... and even then, surely EVERY girl is not there to be won. Everyone has things going on in their lives, we're not all pre-programmed robots who just need the right buttons pressed... surely some girls will just not be available or interested when you approach and it's not a total failure at life.
What do you all think?