Hitting Girls Makes Them Horny? It Seems To.

[Inbocca]

The closest I've come to this was with a girl I'd already slept with, too. She had this tendency to apologize for things she had no business apologizing for. We were laying down on the couch watching Netflix and I shifted positions and accidentally pulled her hair, and she apologized for that. I'd already told her like 50 times so I looked at her sternly and said "fucking stop it". She said "or what?" I took my hand and lightly slapped her face twice. Not even enough to hurt. She looked up at me with mock incredulity and said "such a savage", then nuzzled closer into me and started being super feminine.

Here's why I think this happens: physical force is dominance. It's not the violence women like, it's submitting to a dominant man. Especially in today's society where most guys are afraid to be seen as misogynists, even doing it as a joke is a turn-on.

Even in an abusive relationship, you see the victims fucking the abusers after a big fight where he gets physical with her. Not that it's healthy; I still think guys who beat women are insecure about their ability to get their way and resort to force - which is an obvious advantage. And a lot of times when it gets really bad, there's a genuine fear of retaliation if they leave him. But what you're describing is sexual attraction to physical dominance, plain and simple.

Cheers.

 

[Skippy]

I've never done this, but I'm wondering if instead of slapping you do something that still shows physical dominance but without the negative connotations of slapping or hitting.

For example, with the drama, you pick her up and put her outside the room, and tell her she can only come inside when she's calmed down.

but like I said, I have no experience with hitting in a relationship, it's just something I thought of while reading this post.

 

[Bboy100]

Would not recommend this strategy. It will work, but only on girls who are used to/grew up with the men in her life treating her that way (probably not the kind of women you want to be dating anyways!). Almost all other women won't tolerate this. And there's a very good chance you'll end up in prison if you do it consistently.

Plus, its abusive behavior. Even if it turns her on, it's really not healthy in the long run. It enforces her expectation that physical violence is part of love/how men show affection. Not a good framework from which to operate. If you really want the best for her, I would avoid this.

Take it from a guy who works with a population of people who do stuff like this all the time.

 

[Byron]

God it's been a half year since I've been on the boards. I've started dating this girl, after racking up a few lays in uni, she's hot and very much my type, and have been focusing on social skills+fundamentals. Have called Hector a few times to talk about shit, but couldn't really think of stuff to say. Also got a job as a bartender in a popular club in the city I am in.

Slay-Always thought of you as a brother who's about where I am in seduction and who's as obsessed with fundamentals as I am. In response to the hitting girls thing: I hit girls, during sex. It turns them on even more. Slapping their faces, spanking, all that shit. That being said, I have lightly and half-jokingly slapped girls to snap them out of it. It pisses off their girl-friends, but if they have already slept with me they don't mind. I always kiss them before and after I do and smirk as well. I also will go up and whisper "grab em by the pussayyyyy" and do just that, or go up and spank my girlfriend in public a lot, in front of pretty much anyone, and she loves it.

As Inbocca said, if you very lightly hit them, (not even as punishment, as a joke more) it comes across well. Gotta have them already quite into you though.

Bboy100- You used to always reply to my lay reports, and I think you've passed me up as far as seduction goes, but I'm coming for you bro! And I'd never recommend actually harming a girl. Social calibration is key, (I would never do this with some girls, even if I had already slept with them) but if you're hitting a girl and it's not sexual, it's not ok.