Ive fucked hostesses and bartenders in venues after closing time - mostly them asking me to stay around after closing time or for staff afterparties etc.
A hostess' work entails a work mask she puts on and the job is her main focus for a night. You wanna AVOID activating that mask and role in relation to you at all in the way i do it. Get her out of it. learn to hijack women in their doings which is key also in day game. Know that besides her mask which she will be wearing reducing the signals to you, shes still a human being and can be affected. And when the mask comes on which it will dont flinch when your insecurities make you think youve lost her. Just bypass the mask. Know your value. Know your impact.
Also theres a progression of things that has to be good and this is where the key work on her needs to be done.
My way has amongst others been to
- Work her and the bartenders and their friends circle in the pauses in between her work. There are spots where they hang or hang more eg around certain bar areas. Im a mingler so i just mingled into their sets and started chatting them up in a light and positive way, entering chick crack, sots, sex talks and the likes in the set along regular stuff. Mostly i stayed in the set and worked them when the hostesses came to chill and relax w the others. Social w the set. Sensual and social w. her in a gradualised way.
- Initially, i enter the set like a positive bomb, exciting them all keeping her just part of the set and work them old school mystery style. Or how like TD and others used to enter sets and switch to targets within a min. I just do it low key and as a long transgression here due to her role and the limitations on interactions. Also to be noted i enter these sets more Mingly taught to me by ijjji. Or i low key materialise in hover style w a side opener then stimulating on their responses. whereafter i lock-in w one or two of them inside the set. I potentially chat with them all, or maybe speaking to one of them more or two of them or whatever until i turn on the sexual tension w. her only.
- On the sensual side w. her its mostly about sexual tension work across a timeline. + escalatory persistence in a smooth way. I escalate as a smooth momentum. Here Ive used sois, combined w. pauses and lags, teasing, dead pan bold interest display, combined w social proof from her peers, combined w. sex talk snippets, combined w. provocative distancing and proximity, combined w. other things. This is all done alongside regular playfulness and interesting dialogues over a period of time. But i tune in the sexual tension and feel only to her. Mostly controlled on a low burn.
- For timings - beware of what she can do in front of who. Know she still sees you now and then even if she puts on her work mask. Use that to impact her eg w social proof w her friends, strikingness in your posture and vibe and the likes.
- A good amount of moderate persistence is needed as your own ego will often hit you when she gets into work mode and ignore you. Lean into that what you do works. Have some tough skin.
- Also being fun and lighthearted and stimulating company provides for the access and continued set connection.
It is a lot about working her in the opportunities within the logistics of her work and work mask bearing. Same w other girls tbh as
@Bacchus and ive discussed. There are period of opportunities, timings to be used well with all girls for this sorta work. But w. hostesses it becomes harder, demanding a more refined usage. You need to be a lil creative and see the timings of things.
I gradually melt her and stimulate various sides of her increasing the heat inside her through my presence, social proof w her peers and the few interactions we have. I make it clear in my intent that i want her. i do so subtly and while displaying a sensual capacity while adding in escalatory parts eg. a soi w. barriers eg micro escalatory type things. At the same time im grounded and good company for everyone.
Working the whole staff around her can be a key to provide for access to her.
Wrote it a bit fast, hope you can compute - its literally a mini lay report for you. This is advanced stuff but might provide you a bit of insight into whats possible.
