Hitting up a girl on facebook?

[Maxxz]

What's up Gents, some advice needed here.

So I recently went back on my old facebook page three years after deleting the damn thing, and low and behold on the friends you might know section I stumble on a girl I was trying to hook up with three years ago. The dame's still fine as hell.

I won't lie, I perused the girl's page and come to find out she's recently single. She broke it off with the boyfriend who was an obstacle to me getting a chance with the girl last time around.

So my question is would it be sound to contact this girl on facebook? I don't have her number as I long deleted the thing and moved on. Or will it be wish to just stay moved on? I mean contacting her outta the blue, especially on facebook might seem super chasey.

Anyone care to give an advice here? I'd love to hear some. Thanks.

 

[Sophisticated Gent]

Maxxz,

Since you had a past relationship, although maybe minor, with this girl just approach her as re-establishing contact. Unless you have another way use Facebook to get her contact information. Then switch to text or other forms of communications.

SGent

 

[Maxxz]

I shoulda mentioned Gent, the girl kinda got cold on me because I suppose I didn't make a move fast enough last go around. And I was kinda dickish towards her a little.

I was still going through my asshole phase then having been a nice guy for too long. Does it still hold? Just contact her still on facebook?

 

[Bboy100]

For more specific advice, you'll have to give us more details-
What was your relationship with her before?
How close were you guys?
Did she ever seem to like you as more than a friend?
Why did you guys stop talking? etc.

The more details the better. As more generic advice, I would say go for it. Cause you really have nothing to lose.

 

[Maxxz]

Well the relationship didn't venture past anything more than the fishing phase.

I use the term "fishing" because as I mentioned she had a boyfriend, and I think she was fishing for a new guy at the time, or testing the waters. When we were on speaking terms at the time she kinda mentioned she wasn't really thrilled about the boyfriend. But I blew my opportunity because I didn't move things forward, I think.

I was too aloof, thinking that would bring her closer and not knowing better at the time.

We stopped talking because she got cold and distant, which I attributed to me being a dick and not moving fast. At the time, as I mentioned I was still in my asshole phase so I constantly made fun of her while she was trying to relate. So she stopped responding to my messages.

It's during the non response phase from her I found this website and knew me being an asshole towards her and moving too slow probably doomed my chances.

Truth be told I already moved on. But stumbling on her facebook page brought back memories of what could have been I guess.

I don't even know if I should attempt to contact her, I mean three years has passed. But like you said, there isn't much to lose. If she doesn't respond it's what it is.