Holding back emotions to avoid FZ

[Man-O]

Hey chasers out there! Been a long time since last I've written here.

So I've realized after having been kinda out of the game for 2-3 years I've begun to have a hard time holding back my "fun side" where I laugh and joke on dates to the extend where I get fz'ed.
Now, the easy thing would be to say: "Just stop doing it" right? Yes, I could do it, I've done it. But to me it's BORING. I like teasing and joking while having both parties laugh, which is why the girls I really like are the same (which also makes this even more frustrating). Basically it's about my meta, where I don't want to compromise my joys to get a girl for any cost - but maybe I'm wrong?

Anyone got tips or experience with this? What can I read and/or do to change the too much "fun side"?

Thanks in advance!

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

Man-O dude! A get ya an see where ya coming from an a feel ya don't need to change but ya should stop teasing when ya got them hooked yah? If ya keep pushing when ya already got it ya become to safe an playful so they'll think ya not interested in them. A can only comment on the information ya gave but if ya just teasing an joking ya become an entertainer which works for some guys yah?

If ya don't wanna be fzd then escalate, touch escalate, set the frame an don't miss ya escalation windows. A imagine ya have missed opportunities to use sexual tension to actually push the interaction an ya can use ya fun side to break this an then pick it up later. If ya do this not only will ya have fun but ya will get straight out the friendzone.

If ya ain't read it yet dude read about breaking sexual tension, it's great when ya use it right an it can save opportunities when ya logistics are bad or ya can see interruptions coming. Also getting with the girl is a lot more fun to me dude!