Hey guys, I need some advice. So my girlfriend tore her meniscus like six months ago and she had surgery on it so she was on crutches. In that time I had to hold her purse for her because she was on crutches. Slowly she healed , and in that time when she was in pain is carry the purse for her. Now she's better, and she will still try to get me hold her purse. Her explanation being that she is still in pain which may or may not be true. She has really little knees. Anyways I see I have placed a poor precedent about this purse thing, and I was wondering how to turn this around and stop carrying it. I'm usually the dominant one but I felt bad that she was in pain. Also how do I be less accommodating because she has been trying to get so much investment out lately especially when she was sick making me get her things like a glass of water
Thanks guys
Thanks guys
Walking away and talking to her tomorrow is something people should try. 