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I normally tend to make eye contact with people when I go about, but for a second; moving on before it generates any tension.
I still haven't learned to fully use peripheral vision (for social stuff).
. . .but these last two months I noticed that a few girls actually stare at me when we cross paths, I can look back but they keep staring.
Maybe it's just the stare-at-the-foreigner thing. I don't know.
So, anyway, I began playing a little game: I stare back, usually with a curious smile, until they give up and look away.
Any practical use for this?
Last time at the bar, I got a shy "hi. . ." and an approach invitation later on, different girl.
Another one just kept giving me this blank stare for no apparent reason, but whatever. . .
In day-game settings? Should I even be doing it at all?
How does this work in the US or Europe, anyway?
. . .lest I pick a habit that'll get me in trouble when I move back.
I still haven't learned to fully use peripheral vision (for social stuff).
. . .but these last two months I noticed that a few girls actually stare at me when we cross paths, I can look back but they keep staring.
Maybe it's just the stare-at-the-foreigner thing. I don't know.
So, anyway, I began playing a little game: I stare back, usually with a curious smile, until they give up and look away.
Any practical use for this?
Last time at the bar, I got a shy "hi. . ." and an approach invitation later on, different girl.
Another one just kept giving me this blank stare for no apparent reason, but whatever. . .
In day-game settings? Should I even be doing it at all?
How does this work in the US or Europe, anyway?
. . .lest I pick a habit that'll get me in trouble when I move back.