Horrible logistics

[husky]

So guys... the thing is, it's really hard for me to practice my skills. Since i stumbled upon GC i drastically improoved my fundamentals and overall game "knowledge", but i still end up with nothing more than a kiss or so on night game. Day game is kinda out of my reach since most highscoolers either go out in huge groups or don't go out at all.

Smal info about myself: i'm 18, senoir highschooler and a rocker/metalhead (without the messy style ofc)

My town is quite small and this has drawbacks. First, everyone knows everyone so cold approach is is soon transformed in social circle sometimes even in mere minutes of interaction. But the huge problem i encounter is that:

There is ONLY ONE cub worth going and it's shit.

It's a medium-sized box with blasting speakers and no corner in which i can "hide". The vibe is full-on party-'till-you-die or downright boring. And the temperature outside is quite low and girls would rather stay inside. I'm stll working on my nonverbals so i'm not doing quite well.

Any toughts or ideas on how i should make something work until i depart to college?

Thanks,
Vlad aka. Husky

 

[ray_zorse]

Well firstly u should be hitting up daygame, it takes a lot of balls which is why we tend to find excuses not to do it...

I bet there are some high schoolers you can approach if there's anything like a mall or even a main street... if not then aim a bit higher, I mean I'm 39 and I mainly approach 20~25yo so if I can do that then I'm sure u can approach 20yo, I mean that is only 2 years older than u... sure maybe they have a bit more life experience but after plenty of approaches you'll be able to converse with them at their level I am sure.

As to nightgame well I'm sure there are dudes getting more action than you, what are they doing differently? They are king dick in their social circle? Umm that's hard to counter, and in any case some places just don't have the right vibe to work with your style of game... persist a bit and check out other dudes with game but if that fails just look further afield.

Maybe lounge bar or similar is better for u than club? There must be at least one place in your town to drink other than the nightclub right? Or night street game? Bet you could grab yourself a hotty from outside the club around closing time who would otherwise be going home disappointed?

Or can you get a train to nearby city to practice game? The right mix of pedestrians and the right general vibe of an area can lift your mood and the quality of your interactions a lot... (though this is never an excuse not to game)... if you are worried about having nowhere to pull to, don't, cos it will take u months to level up to where that is an issue at all.

Or how about borrowing parents' car or driving your own if you have one? Then you have somewhere to isolate and escalate. I also keep a sleeping bag and bedroll in my car at all times (as well as condoms) in case an opportunity for public sex presents itself... got to be creative bro.

If all else fails improve your logistics.

Hope that helps. If it doesn't then no more excuses, find a solution yourself, you are a high value man, you can do it

cheers, Ray

 

[husky]

Thans for the reply Ray! This give me quite a few ideas on what i ought to do forward. Also i'd like to share a few of my "field" observations regarding what you just said.

About the other (handful of) players... they all have something in common:
a) they come from the Arts and Music high, and they have pretty much no stress about studying or anythign else apart from fun (party 5 days a week);
b) they all are "king dicks" in the social circle (yes circle, because it's only one... and i'm kinda in it... hard to meet new people without someone asking me about 'em and instantly getting outshined). It's simply how they are since they started partying at a very young age.
c) they all know how to DANCE real good on the R&B, Reggasestep, Dubstep or whatever style of club-music is playing (this being the only way to get a gir's attention). I'm learning it too tho.

Also when i said that's the only venue... it actually is. There was a lounge i loved where i made my first pick-up even before knowing about the Community that went bankrupt for lack of customers (i totally agree to the fact that i like lounges waaay better). to be fair there are some decent venues, but the women there are: 30+ or Crayon-eyebrows that chase after sweatpant-wearing, deodorant-reeking, bmw driver gipsyes and girls "from another planet", meaning that they are waaay out of my niche. I carry myself around like a well-groomed rockstar and they have been brainwashed that rock is "bad" so they are cold to rockers. I do try tho.

That aside, i will definetly take on day game as soon as temperatures go above zero and people would actually roam the streets.

Woah, i did write for a while... i'll stop here

Thanks again,
Vlad