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I've been lazy recently and haven't posted any Field reports, most likely because i've had exam stress and was courting a new girl who is now my girlfriend, but more on that in another report. And as for this report, it quite old, say a month and a half and a lot has happened both in my "inner game" and my actual game, skill and confidence. So here we go.
I see her walk in to the party, long blond hair, busty boobs and a black crop top with a front zip. The first thing think of is, "man, I want to unzip that top." 3 hours later I'm unzipping her top.
Let's go back a few hours to the start of the night. I'm going to this large house party with a few friends. I'm dressed wearing a slim fit dark blue polka dot shirt, sleeves rolled up matched with skinny black jeans and a pair of Chelsea boots. Not my best outfit but still very smart and sexy.
We arrive at the flat party. I set up and get my drink on. I say hi to a few friends and the hosts. I chat to a few new guys nearby just to build a little social momentum and get myself to ease up and enjoy the party. I head over to my group afterwards. They are standing among themselves in a corner.
We talk for a while and as i look away for new people and possible adventure and thankfully a guy friend introduces me to a very pretty American girl called H. I like the looks of her. She greets me with a warm smile and i greet her back with a touch on the arm. But since I had been chatting to my friend earlier he decided to latch onto me for social support at this party (he was not from around here and didn't know many people). I felt obliged to introduce him into this newly formed circle. A big mistake. One that i won't make again.
What happened was that she lost interest fast. Thinking about I assumed she liked the looks of me and got her friend to introduce her to me in hopes of something. But when i broke circle and added an extra member to the party i must have seemed oblivious to the fact that she was interested in me and she might have thought i was purely interested in being social. Whoops, my bad.
Anyway the alcohol was starting to kick in social momentum was beginning to hit me to and so I started approaching more and felt more confident. I don't rely on alcohol normally, in fact these days i usually do nights out with 2 or 3 small drinks which is minuscule amount compared to other students.
After H I meet another girl. We chat for a bit but i can tell she is just being polite. She isn't interested.
One thing i've realized now is that i can see interest with really good accuracy. Over time I’ve developed a keen eye for girls that are into me. From subtle body language cues like wider eyes, mirroring body language and licking lips to overt things like her touching my arm (never done by accident) or standing that little bit closer. However despite all of these cues one thing always astonishes I is that despite how interested or not she seems, just asking her to move with you or do XYZ for you makes it all crystal clear.
Any way I head downstairs for a smoke and meet some other members of the party. And that is where I see the cute blonde with the zip crop top. I look at her and give her a sexy smile, she returns the smile and i open. I tell there that we've met once before. And we have, briefly at another party but the interaction was so short it wasn't even noteworthy. What was noteworthy though was that when she did meet me she was very interested in me, i can just tell now if a girl is into to me a not.
We then proceed to chat about her. A little bit of deep diving and flirting using the push pull method (one of my favorite ways of flirting). She tells me about where she is from what she does and her plans and dreams for the future. We then head back inside and she stays with me. We talk some more as I lock into the wall and have her chat to me. I’m thinking of moving her to a seat but don’t want to interrupt her midway, so I ask her another question and just before she answers I get the investment I want and move her to sit with me. As we sit we chat more and I touch more and use some more sexy non verbals.
The main party is dying down and most people have left. None of us want to the night to end and she invites me to an after party being held at hers but it's very close friends only, even though we've just met, i wonder why?
. But right after the invite she says whether I’ve met her friend. I have but I take this as a possible “leave me alone please” comment. In hind sight this is either a test or her just genuinely being social. Anyway she leaves for a bit and I walk around and chat. Then then we decide to go the after party and as a test for interest I hold back and see if she engages me. She does and we are off to hers.
We arrive at the flat and we play a card game with some weed, eventually it’s just me and her talking and listening to music on her laptop alone in her room. I'll leave the rest to your imagination
For this report there isn't a lot of details and i can't remeber exactly what i did as it was a while ago and i am sorry for that. The one thing i could have done better was with H, lesson learnt, don't break circle.
Any thoughts and questions, ask away.
Rookie
I see her walk in to the party, long blond hair, busty boobs and a black crop top with a front zip. The first thing think of is, "man, I want to unzip that top." 3 hours later I'm unzipping her top.
Let's go back a few hours to the start of the night. I'm going to this large house party with a few friends. I'm dressed wearing a slim fit dark blue polka dot shirt, sleeves rolled up matched with skinny black jeans and a pair of Chelsea boots. Not my best outfit but still very smart and sexy.
We arrive at the flat party. I set up and get my drink on. I say hi to a few friends and the hosts. I chat to a few new guys nearby just to build a little social momentum and get myself to ease up and enjoy the party. I head over to my group afterwards. They are standing among themselves in a corner.
We talk for a while and as i look away for new people and possible adventure and thankfully a guy friend introduces me to a very pretty American girl called H. I like the looks of her. She greets me with a warm smile and i greet her back with a touch on the arm. But since I had been chatting to my friend earlier he decided to latch onto me for social support at this party (he was not from around here and didn't know many people). I felt obliged to introduce him into this newly formed circle. A big mistake. One that i won't make again.
What happened was that she lost interest fast. Thinking about I assumed she liked the looks of me and got her friend to introduce her to me in hopes of something. But when i broke circle and added an extra member to the party i must have seemed oblivious to the fact that she was interested in me and she might have thought i was purely interested in being social. Whoops, my bad.
Anyway the alcohol was starting to kick in social momentum was beginning to hit me to and so I started approaching more and felt more confident. I don't rely on alcohol normally, in fact these days i usually do nights out with 2 or 3 small drinks which is minuscule amount compared to other students.
After H I meet another girl. We chat for a bit but i can tell she is just being polite. She isn't interested.
One thing i've realized now is that i can see interest with really good accuracy. Over time I’ve developed a keen eye for girls that are into me. From subtle body language cues like wider eyes, mirroring body language and licking lips to overt things like her touching my arm (never done by accident) or standing that little bit closer. However despite all of these cues one thing always astonishes I is that despite how interested or not she seems, just asking her to move with you or do XYZ for you makes it all crystal clear.
Any way I head downstairs for a smoke and meet some other members of the party. And that is where I see the cute blonde with the zip crop top. I look at her and give her a sexy smile, she returns the smile and i open. I tell there that we've met once before. And we have, briefly at another party but the interaction was so short it wasn't even noteworthy. What was noteworthy though was that when she did meet me she was very interested in me, i can just tell now if a girl is into to me a not.
We then proceed to chat about her. A little bit of deep diving and flirting using the push pull method (one of my favorite ways of flirting). She tells me about where she is from what she does and her plans and dreams for the future. We then head back inside and she stays with me. We talk some more as I lock into the wall and have her chat to me. I’m thinking of moving her to a seat but don’t want to interrupt her midway, so I ask her another question and just before she answers I get the investment I want and move her to sit with me. As we sit we chat more and I touch more and use some more sexy non verbals.
The main party is dying down and most people have left. None of us want to the night to end and she invites me to an after party being held at hers but it's very close friends only, even though we've just met, i wonder why?
. But right after the invite she says whether I’ve met her friend. I have but I take this as a possible “leave me alone please” comment. In hind sight this is either a test or her just genuinely being social. Anyway she leaves for a bit and I walk around and chat. Then then we decide to go the after party and as a test for interest I hold back and see if she engages me. She does and we are off to hers.We arrive at the flat and we play a card game with some weed, eventually it’s just me and her talking and listening to music on her laptop alone in her room. I'll leave the rest to your imagination
For this report there isn't a lot of details and i can't remeber exactly what i did as it was a while ago and i am sorry for that. The one thing i could have done better was with H, lesson learnt, don't break circle.
Any thoughts and questions, ask away.
Rookie
