Hey guys,
I have a very special case for you I believe, one which has not being covered on this site of my knowledge. I’m coming here in hope of your rarely experienced advice in order to help me being a better man and seduce not women, only a very special one.
I highlighted the key events for those of you who wouldn’t read the whole version.
Here’s a report of my crazy weekend : You’ll have to excuse my spelling, my mother tongue is french, plus i’m emptying a bottle of wine (I’m out of weed) as i’m writing.
I’m playing in a play with the university theatre company and we rehearsed the whole past week, until Friday.viewforum.php?f=5
I had a girl frome the company on Friday evening. The next day, I was out with her, some friends and a special short-haired girl happenned to be among them. I’ve known her like 8 months now, I never dared to be turned on by her because I always though that she had to be the kind of too-perfect-to-be-true-girl. So I never really engaged her, as i felt I didn’t have the skill set for her kind yet, plus the fact that my logistics were pretty awful.
So this Saturday night, we were out and about drinking and partying after the première of our play, all hyped up by the emotions it put into us. The short-haired girl was paying me quite a lot of attention, whislt i was trying to get into one of her friend’ss pants. At some point during the night, a drunk guy in a penguin dress, who happenend to be spending his last night as a non-married man told us that we looked like brother and sister, that we should definitely marry and fuck. A little later (or before, can’t recall) she offered that I spend the night at her place. We then went dancing, and challenged each other by trying, among other things, to get some shy girls to come dance with us. She then kissed the girl i had had the night before, for a bet we made.
As we were on our way to her home it was raining, something nasty. A guy driving by stopped, lowered his window and offered to drive us home because we looked like fun and he was bored.
A few seconds after entering her appartement, me being too drunk to think about anything, she kissed me.
During sex, she had absolutely no inhibition (i guess i set the right frames around jugement), moaning in a raw and deeply sexy way. I’d never experienced a woman being so completely guilt free.
By the morning (after having slept 2 hours) we were totally drunk on each other. Like i’ve not been since my first sexual experiences after discovering a whole new world of sensations with someone else, and not wanting this extremly powerful world of emotions to go away.
Before being totally drunk on her smell, taste and moans, as i was still screening her, i got out that she has amazingly few issues, just enough to encourage my manly protective instinct
She’s this high energy, outgoing girl, who does plenty of stuff and has her very own sexiness that gets to me.. She is opinionated, has short hair and an incredibly sexy, feminine body. I lack the words to describe her personality, hotness and the emotions she got into me.
She has a boyfriend, whom she has an open relationship with. She told me that she was in love with him but wouldn’t commit only to him eventhough. Until now, i’ve always been in situations where at that point of the seduction, the girl had sparks in the eyes when looking at me, and i could get away with all kind of shit, but not with her. And that just makes her all that more interesting.
Here comes the tricky part : She told me she was in love with her boyfriend eventhough she barely knows him. She said she « loves her boyfriend, or so to be called, because actually many people wouldn’t say they are together, partly because he accepted that she had other guys in her life ».
She speaks 4 languages, is about to finish her master’s studies (yes I live in europe), loves travelling, is crazy smart, witty and spirited.
As is the situation between us now, I think i have good chances to get to see her, fuck her and make sweet love to her again. Eventhough she led me to believe she’s had her share of men – experienced men – in bed, I can’t believe she’s – neither most of people on this earth - often had the kind of passionate sex we had . This is the kind of sex you think of right before dying and thank life for having had it.
At some point i proposed that she tie me up to her bed, and came to me only to feed me and make love to me. She liked the thought. We have the same thoughts pathways and just understand what the other is saying.
As Hank Moody – one of my big inspiration along with Kevin Spacey and Chase – said it :
« Actress Karen: Why does he love her so much? What is it about her?
Hank Moody: I don't know. I don't think I have ever known. I think sometimes you get it right at the first time and then it defines your life. It becomes who you are. »
Chase actually said something similar in one of his articles ( "Love at first sight" : https://www.girlschase.com/content/love-first-sight ) eventhough he has a different reaction to it.
Yet, as I learned on this very site, one of my weak point was to set goals for myself – in every area of my life, not only girls. My goal with this girl is to seduce her, to make her so fucking addicted to my mere presence that she feels she can’t live without me.
Any bold, result oriented advice on my case ? I’m ready to get myself thourgh quiet a few changes to seduce her. I need to use all this energy and motivation and pour it towards my self-improvement.
Strategically, as approaches to the unique case of her conquering beautifull butt, i see two options (and probably, there are more i’m not aware of) :
I could go the Hank Moody way, all heart-out, and tell her i never experienced anything as crazy as what i did with her, that i will stick around and commit to make her happy whatever happens. I think that I could actually put such an amount of emotions into it that she’d feel it into her bones (and hopefully her ladyparts too).
Or, I could get her jealous by keeping seeing her, whilst letting her see how i seduce other girls, and playing the laidback, mysterious guy – just being better at it then her boyfriend.
One thing I will definitely strive to offer her is the best sex in her life, violating a few of my and (hopefully) many of her boundaries on the way. About that, S&M or anal ? (She seemed to enjoy the rimjob i performed).
A practical question : her boyfriend is coming to see our play on thursday : how should i be around him ? Act aloof or hostile and challenge him ?
If only I could write as efficiently as I just did for my bachelor’s thesis…
I thank those of you who read the whole thing, and even more those who will answer with their thoughts, contributing to my personnal growth.
Nojas
I have a very special case for you I believe, one which has not being covered on this site of my knowledge. I’m coming here in hope of your rarely experienced advice in order to help me being a better man and seduce not women, only a very special one.
I highlighted the key events for those of you who wouldn’t read the whole version.
Here’s a report of my crazy weekend : You’ll have to excuse my spelling, my mother tongue is french, plus i’m emptying a bottle of wine (I’m out of weed) as i’m writing.
I’m playing in a play with the university theatre company and we rehearsed the whole past week, until Friday.viewforum.php?f=5
I had a girl frome the company on Friday evening. The next day, I was out with her, some friends and a special short-haired girl happenned to be among them. I’ve known her like 8 months now, I never dared to be turned on by her because I always though that she had to be the kind of too-perfect-to-be-true-girl. So I never really engaged her, as i felt I didn’t have the skill set for her kind yet, plus the fact that my logistics were pretty awful.
So this Saturday night, we were out and about drinking and partying after the première of our play, all hyped up by the emotions it put into us. The short-haired girl was paying me quite a lot of attention, whislt i was trying to get into one of her friend’ss pants. At some point during the night, a drunk guy in a penguin dress, who happenend to be spending his last night as a non-married man told us that we looked like brother and sister, that we should definitely marry and fuck. A little later (or before, can’t recall) she offered that I spend the night at her place. We then went dancing, and challenged each other by trying, among other things, to get some shy girls to come dance with us. She then kissed the girl i had had the night before, for a bet we made.
As we were on our way to her home it was raining, something nasty. A guy driving by stopped, lowered his window and offered to drive us home because we looked like fun and he was bored.
A few seconds after entering her appartement, me being too drunk to think about anything, she kissed me.
During sex, she had absolutely no inhibition (i guess i set the right frames around jugement), moaning in a raw and deeply sexy way. I’d never experienced a woman being so completely guilt free.
By the morning (after having slept 2 hours) we were totally drunk on each other. Like i’ve not been since my first sexual experiences after discovering a whole new world of sensations with someone else, and not wanting this extremly powerful world of emotions to go away.
Before being totally drunk on her smell, taste and moans, as i was still screening her, i got out that she has amazingly few issues, just enough to encourage my manly protective instinct
She’s this high energy, outgoing girl, who does plenty of stuff and has her very own sexiness that gets to me.. She is opinionated, has short hair and an incredibly sexy, feminine body. I lack the words to describe her personality, hotness and the emotions she got into me.
She has a boyfriend, whom she has an open relationship with. She told me that she was in love with him but wouldn’t commit only to him eventhough. Until now, i’ve always been in situations where at that point of the seduction, the girl had sparks in the eyes when looking at me, and i could get away with all kind of shit, but not with her. And that just makes her all that more interesting.
Here comes the tricky part : She told me she was in love with her boyfriend eventhough she barely knows him. She said she « loves her boyfriend, or so to be called, because actually many people wouldn’t say they are together, partly because he accepted that she had other guys in her life ».
She speaks 4 languages, is about to finish her master’s studies (yes I live in europe), loves travelling, is crazy smart, witty and spirited.
As is the situation between us now, I think i have good chances to get to see her, fuck her and make sweet love to her again. Eventhough she led me to believe she’s had her share of men – experienced men – in bed, I can’t believe she’s – neither most of people on this earth - often had the kind of passionate sex we had . This is the kind of sex you think of right before dying and thank life for having had it.
At some point i proposed that she tie me up to her bed, and came to me only to feed me and make love to me. She liked the thought. We have the same thoughts pathways and just understand what the other is saying.
As Hank Moody – one of my big inspiration along with Kevin Spacey and Chase – said it :
« Actress Karen: Why does he love her so much? What is it about her?
Hank Moody: I don't know. I don't think I have ever known. I think sometimes you get it right at the first time and then it defines your life. It becomes who you are. »
Chase actually said something similar in one of his articles ( "Love at first sight" : https://www.girlschase.com/content/love-first-sight ) eventhough he has a different reaction to it.
Yet, as I learned on this very site, one of my weak point was to set goals for myself – in every area of my life, not only girls. My goal with this girl is to seduce her, to make her so fucking addicted to my mere presence that she feels she can’t live without me.
Any bold, result oriented advice on my case ? I’m ready to get myself thourgh quiet a few changes to seduce her. I need to use all this energy and motivation and pour it towards my self-improvement.
Strategically, as approaches to the unique case of her conquering beautifull butt, i see two options (and probably, there are more i’m not aware of) :
I could go the Hank Moody way, all heart-out, and tell her i never experienced anything as crazy as what i did with her, that i will stick around and commit to make her happy whatever happens. I think that I could actually put such an amount of emotions into it that she’d feel it into her bones (and hopefully her ladyparts too).
Or, I could get her jealous by keeping seeing her, whilst letting her see how i seduce other girls, and playing the laidback, mysterious guy – just being better at it then her boyfriend.
One thing I will definitely strive to offer her is the best sex in her life, violating a few of my and (hopefully) many of her boundaries on the way. About that, S&M or anal ? (She seemed to enjoy the rimjob i performed).
A practical question : her boyfriend is coming to see our play on thursday : how should i be around him ? Act aloof or hostile and challenge him ?
If only I could write as efficiently as I just did for my bachelor’s thesis…
I thank those of you who read the whole thing, and even more those who will answer with their thoughts, contributing to my personnal growth.
Nojas
