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Hey guys, I'm literally writing this about an hour after the lay
(I'm working on writing better LRs/FRs so any feedback on the structure and detail of this one would be much appreciated! Unfortunately the approach happened weeks ago so i don't remember most of the conversation)
Been getting frustrated with night game results recently but this was a nice surprise.
Two weeks ago, I went out on a regular weekend night. I can't remember much details leading up to the approach but the girl in question was one of the last girls I talked to that night. Outfit is an olive jacket, gold chain, watch, gold bracelet, black t-shirt underneath, straight jeans and sneakers. I've gotten good compliments on the jacket since it suits my skin tone.
She was playing pool with her friend and I stood by the table to watch. I play a lot of pool so I like to spectate. I was initially going to game her friend who she was taking turns with. When her friend was waiting for her turn, I walked up to her and talked about her form, asking her if she plays regularly (she clearly doesn't as her form was bad). She says she doesn't and then I tease her about it. We converse for a while before she takes her next turn.
This is when I notice her friend, the girl I end up laying, she's much more attractive - blonde fit white girl (an 8-9/10 in my books, great body)- so I open her as well, talking about her teammate the other girl. We talk about pool and since they are losing, I ask her if she'll let me on her team. She says if I make a shot, she'll buy me a drink.
A couple of turns later, I make the shot, we end up losing the game but she holds up her end of the deal. We go to the bar to get me a drink. The bar is crowded so we have to wait a long time so this gives me plenty of opportunity to talk to her. She didn't seem into me but she was investing a lot (moving with me, offering to buy me a drink, contributing meaningfully to conversation) so I stay in set.
Her friend comes over about 20 minutes later saying she wants to leave, I grab her number and tell her she'll get me that drink later.
I text her the afternoon next day:
Me: "hey you
"
Me: "my friends and I played a couple more games last night"
Me: "did yall get up to anything fun?"
Her: "Hey hey!"
Her: "Did yall sweep i'm assuming?"
Her: "And lol fs not, right to bed"
Me: "loll a couple definitely"
Me: *sends picture of pool table i'm playing at currently*
Me: back at it again actually
Me: "what you up to?"
<No response>
I text 11pm the next day
Me: "so what's your schedule to get that drink?"
<No response>
At this point, I chuck it up to another night game flaky number. I've gotten cases like this where the girl seems invested over text at first but stops responding. I think it's because their emotion/headspace is in such a different place as compared to the approach
A couple of days ago, I was bored and thought about sending a funny text to her (double texting I know) to experiment. My friend, the one guy i know in real life who is actually decent at game, is a lot more goofy than I am. He has sent me screenshots of his texts to girls and they are so goofy and much more fun than the text conversations I have. I can be playful sexy in person but it's harder to convey that over text. He's also shameless about double-texting so I decide to try this out. I text her:
Me: "i miss us
"
To my surprise, she responds:
Her: "L O L me too me too"
Her: "I have some time in the evening Mon or Tues if you'd still wanna grab a drink"
Me: 'yeah lets do tuesday"
Me: "does 7pm work"
(The fact that she responded to that made me conclude she was definitely horny and that I could easily get the lay)
The rest is simple logistics - I set up the date and we meet today.
First date lays are my strong point so I was fairly confident but still - there's no way I'm getting this girl tonight - so I thought. She gets to the bar before I do but i arrive shortly after and the date begins.
I won't put the whole conversation here because it's too much so i'll just highlight the important parts.
We first start off talking about work, how our weeks have been, what we do for fun outside of work. I've made it a goal over the past 2 weeks to have multiple full conversations with people in my day-to-day life everyday so my social momentum has been very high(thanks to the responses on my previous post).
She's pretty good at conversation too, asking great questions - whys and hows - so it all flows very well. I think a pivotal moment in the interaction was when I told her I was into photography and she asked me what type of photos I take. I give a very deep answer about how it's not exactly the scene that matters to me - the scene is important of course - but it's about capturing an emotion that you're feeling at that particular point in time in a frame and keeping the photo as a way to revisit the past somewhat and re-trigger those emotions.
I'm using very rich language and I could see her eyes light up - these are the types of conversations I have with girls on my dates and they seem to respond very well to it. I give off fuckboy, kinda degenerate vibes through silly shit I say throughout the conversation but then I ask good questions and give thoughtful answers meant to evoke certain feelings which girls have historically responded well to. I think they like the polarizing nature.
At this point, I leave to use restroom and when I come back, I notice she's facing me fully now. Now I'm able to intertwine my hands with hers while talking, rub her thigh etc
Now the vibe is a bit more sexual - it was feeling very social at the beginning. I was lowkey worried I was coming off as a gay best friend lol
It's raining/drizzling outside but I suggest we go for a walk since i have an umbrella. She says she has to leave soon but I tell her she has to enjoy the one night in the week where she goes out. She agrees. Sharing an umbrella forces us to be closer while walking and i wasn't afraid to have my arms around her while we walked.
We go to an area with an amazing view of the river, very romantic and we kissed. We talk a bit more and I ask her if she wanted to grab a drink before calling it a night. She agrees and we go to my place.
I get us some wine. i just moved to my new place so I ask her what she thinks about my interior design skills, we then start making out and I break it up - just so I don't have to deal with last minute resistance. I've had situations early in my career where everything seems smoothly until you try to take it all the way and she resists which is hard to come from depending on the type of resistance. So I always do this for good measure, learned it from Todd V i think. I pull back and resume conversation like nothing happened. I then rebuilt the tension quickly by talking slowly, making strong eye contact and cutting space and we make out once more. I'm still suspicious that I haven't gotten any mid-heavy resistance yet but I escalate the make out and we go all the way.
One of the hottest girls I've laid. I could only dream of laying girls like her years ago but now first sex with a girl doesn't excite me as much. I think third time with a girl is when things get really fun lol.
(I'm working on writing better LRs/FRs so any feedback on the structure and detail of this one would be much appreciated! Unfortunately the approach happened weeks ago so i don't remember most of the conversation)
Been getting frustrated with night game results recently but this was a nice surprise.
Two weeks ago, I went out on a regular weekend night. I can't remember much details leading up to the approach but the girl in question was one of the last girls I talked to that night. Outfit is an olive jacket, gold chain, watch, gold bracelet, black t-shirt underneath, straight jeans and sneakers. I've gotten good compliments on the jacket since it suits my skin tone.
She was playing pool with her friend and I stood by the table to watch. I play a lot of pool so I like to spectate. I was initially going to game her friend who she was taking turns with. When her friend was waiting for her turn, I walked up to her and talked about her form, asking her if she plays regularly (she clearly doesn't as her form was bad). She says she doesn't and then I tease her about it. We converse for a while before she takes her next turn.
This is when I notice her friend, the girl I end up laying, she's much more attractive - blonde fit white girl (an 8-9/10 in my books, great body)- so I open her as well, talking about her teammate the other girl. We talk about pool and since they are losing, I ask her if she'll let me on her team. She says if I make a shot, she'll buy me a drink.
A couple of turns later, I make the shot, we end up losing the game but she holds up her end of the deal. We go to the bar to get me a drink. The bar is crowded so we have to wait a long time so this gives me plenty of opportunity to talk to her. She didn't seem into me but she was investing a lot (moving with me, offering to buy me a drink, contributing meaningfully to conversation) so I stay in set.
Her friend comes over about 20 minutes later saying she wants to leave, I grab her number and tell her she'll get me that drink later.
I text her the afternoon next day:
Me: "hey you
"Me: "my friends and I played a couple more games last night"
Me: "did yall get up to anything fun?"
Her: "Hey hey!"
Her: "Did yall sweep i'm assuming?"
Her: "And lol fs not, right to bed"
Me: "loll a couple definitely"
Me: *sends picture of pool table i'm playing at currently*
Me: back at it again actually
Me: "what you up to?"
<No response>
I text 11pm the next day
Me: "so what's your schedule to get that drink?
"<No response>
At this point, I chuck it up to another night game flaky number. I've gotten cases like this where the girl seems invested over text at first but stops responding. I think it's because their emotion/headspace is in such a different place as compared to the approach
A couple of days ago, I was bored and thought about sending a funny text to her (double texting I know) to experiment. My friend, the one guy i know in real life who is actually decent at game, is a lot more goofy than I am. He has sent me screenshots of his texts to girls and they are so goofy and much more fun than the text conversations I have. I can be playful sexy in person but it's harder to convey that over text. He's also shameless about double-texting so I decide to try this out. I text her:
Me: "i miss us
"To my surprise, she responds:
Her: "L O L me too me too"
Her: "I have some time in the evening Mon or Tues if you'd still wanna grab a drink"
Me: 'yeah lets do tuesday"
Me: "does 7pm work"
(The fact that she responded to that made me conclude she was definitely horny and that I could easily get the lay)
The rest is simple logistics - I set up the date and we meet today.
First date lays are my strong point so I was fairly confident but still - there's no way I'm getting this girl tonight - so I thought. She gets to the bar before I do but i arrive shortly after and the date begins.
I won't put the whole conversation here because it's too much so i'll just highlight the important parts.
We first start off talking about work, how our weeks have been, what we do for fun outside of work. I've made it a goal over the past 2 weeks to have multiple full conversations with people in my day-to-day life everyday so my social momentum has been very high(thanks to the responses on my previous post).
She's pretty good at conversation too, asking great questions - whys and hows - so it all flows very well. I think a pivotal moment in the interaction was when I told her I was into photography and she asked me what type of photos I take. I give a very deep answer about how it's not exactly the scene that matters to me - the scene is important of course - but it's about capturing an emotion that you're feeling at that particular point in time in a frame and keeping the photo as a way to revisit the past somewhat and re-trigger those emotions.
I'm using very rich language and I could see her eyes light up - these are the types of conversations I have with girls on my dates and they seem to respond very well to it. I give off fuckboy, kinda degenerate vibes through silly shit I say throughout the conversation but then I ask good questions and give thoughtful answers meant to evoke certain feelings which girls have historically responded well to. I think they like the polarizing nature.
At this point, I leave to use restroom and when I come back, I notice she's facing me fully now. Now I'm able to intertwine my hands with hers while talking, rub her thigh etc
Now the vibe is a bit more sexual - it was feeling very social at the beginning. I was lowkey worried I was coming off as a gay best friend lol
It's raining/drizzling outside but I suggest we go for a walk since i have an umbrella. She says she has to leave soon but I tell her she has to enjoy the one night in the week where she goes out. She agrees. Sharing an umbrella forces us to be closer while walking and i wasn't afraid to have my arms around her while we walked.
We go to an area with an amazing view of the river, very romantic and we kissed. We talk a bit more and I ask her if she wanted to grab a drink before calling it a night. She agrees and we go to my place.
I get us some wine. i just moved to my new place so I ask her what she thinks about my interior design skills, we then start making out and I break it up - just so I don't have to deal with last minute resistance. I've had situations early in my career where everything seems smoothly until you try to take it all the way and she resists which is hard to come from depending on the type of resistance. So I always do this for good measure, learned it from Todd V i think. I pull back and resume conversation like nothing happened. I then rebuilt the tension quickly by talking slowly, making strong eye contact and cutting space and we make out once more. I'm still suspicious that I haven't gotten any mid-heavy resistance yet but I escalate the make out and we go all the way.
One of the hottest girls I've laid. I could only dream of laying girls like her years ago but now first sex with a girl doesn't excite me as much. I think third time with a girl is when things get really fun lol.
