Hi, gentlemen! Here's my first Field Report. I feel I'm still new to the seduction game but I've done a lot of reading here at GC and I've taken them to heart. I want to know how some thing here during this experience worked and how else I could've improved. Thank you!
4 July 2014 - House Party at a classmate's house
Arrival
I was invited to a house party for the 4th of July before a fireworks show at nearby park. The party was located pretty far from my apartment and the house was crowded (I didn't expect so many people to come over that night) and small (most people were hanging out in the backyard when there wasn't enough room in the house) so I wasn't prepared to make any pulls with some of the college girls there at the time but I was willing to extract a phone number or two. Arriving at the party I noticed that I was the best dressed individual in a "dressier casual look" as the guys there were wearing T-shirts, frayed shorts, sandals, and carried unkempt beards. I felt, at least, I was able to fare much better approaching some of the girls (who were dressed pretty well during the warm evening) than most of the guys there as making a very positive first impression to new people was important to me.
Introductions
After I chatted with the classmates I knew, I ventured out and joined in a few drinking games to meet the people. I didn't want to look awkward by just sitting alone sipping on my beer. The last game I played involved driving an opponents nail into a wooden stump. This gave me a opportunity to introduce myself to the girls depending on which nail I would strike. One girl next to me, Megan, was a slender brunette in a small blue summer dress and caught my eye. I introduced myself and she introduced herself and her friends and roommate. I began innocently flirting with her when one guy stepped in between us and try to tool me for talking to "his girl" so I calmly shrugged it off and told him I was just making small talk with new people at the party. The game went on as I introduced myself to Megan's roommate, Kaitlyn. Although, Kaitlyn was a pretty cute tall blonde in a white blouse and shorts, I didn't think much of her as I was originally aiming for her roommate Megan.
Deep Dive
After me and a few others were eliminated from the game, I sat down alone nearby to watch the game go on. Megan sat down next to me so I started doing a deep-dive with her for 5 minutes until her boyfriend came to get her so they can go smoke weed. A few minutes later, Kaitlyn decided to come sit next to me and we started talking about how her evening was and how she knew the host of the party. We talked about our majors...
Kaitlyn: I'm finishing my Graphic Design major and I'll be graduating in December. What's yours?
Me: Well, Kaitlyn. You've got discerning eyes for a designer...why don't you take a guess?
Kaitlyn: Hmm....you look like you're taking a Masters in physics.
Me: Haha! I guess your eyes aren't THAT discerning. No, I'm just taking a Second Bachelors in Graphic Design.
Kaitlyn: Oh, no way! You just look so different from the other guys here I thought you were taking a Masters or Doctorates. It's just the way you dress and carry yourself...you look like you know what you're doing and have a plan in life. I'm impressed!
Me: Oh, thank you, my dear!
Compliance Test and Close
We proceeded to talk more about what she was all about for an hour until it was time to start walking to the nearby park to see the fireworks. Kaitlyn then wanted to look for her roommate Megan, who was no where to be seen on the premises. I would tell Kaitlyn "Megan's gonna be alright. She'll find her way to the park. It's seems pretty close. Let's go head on out." I would gently grab her hand and lead her through the crowded backyard and make our way to the park. I would test out her attraction by lightening my grip on her hand to see if she would try to continue holding it and it was safe to say she was interested. At the park, we'd sit and talk more until the fireworks started shooting. Unfortunately, from our current position at the park, we didn't see the fireworks so I asked "Lets say we move over there to get a better view?" and gently grabbed her hand to lead her to a better vantage point. After the fireworks stopped, we both walked back to the house party. On our way there...
Me: That was one impressive show! It was also great hanging out with you tonight. What do you say we hangout next week when you're free?
Kaitlyn: Yeah sure! That would be fun!
Me: Great! Let's swap our contact info so we can coordinate.
[We trade our cellphones to punch in our contact numbers]
Me: Cool. Anyway, what did you think of the show?....
Once we got to the house party, we sat back down in the back yard and continued talking for a few minutes before everyone else started trickling in. By this time it was getting real loud and people were smoking weed that it was getting distracting so I suggested we go inside the house where there was less people and there was no smoke. So she came along and we both sat down on the couch in the living room where there were a few people talking and continued our conversation. Later, I noticed her roommate Megan was departing the party with her friends and decided to check on Kaitlyn. Kaitlyn told Megan that she was going to be alright and was going to depart later since she drove separately. We ended up talking till 11:45 PM before we both were getting tired and decided to leave the party to go home our separate ways. Later the next day, I texted her: "Hey Kaitlyn! It was a pleasure meeting you last night. Have a great weekend
"
Reflection
Overall, I felt the initial interaction between me and Megan were good until her boyfriend stopped by to tool me. I felt I did the right thing by not losing control in front of everybody and getting combative. I felt that if he really wanted her then I wasn't going to put in too much effort to "fight" him for Megan. Also, I feel that I should've dropped any more effort into Megan and started conversing with the many other girls there immediately instead of trying to focus on one girl. Honestly, when I met Kaitlyn, I wasn't expecting to connect with her on a pretty deep level. She mentioned she was pretty introverted at parties and didn't care for meeting strangers and small talk. What was funny was that I got her talking most of the time after I asked the right questions to get ourselves past the small talk. I feel that she feels refreshed and more comfortable with me during the party as she didn't know anyone else besides her roommate. The conversation was pretty enjoyable and flowed naturally as I found ways to discretely talk about "naughty" things. Looking into her eyes, I felt that I could see the attraction for me build up. As the night was coming to a close for us, I feel that I should've suggested she drive us to go for some tea at a local coffee shop that was open 24/7 near my apartment. There, I could've possibly made a pull back to my apartment where I could continue the seduction and escalate.
4 July 2014 - House Party at a classmate's house
Arrival
I was invited to a house party for the 4th of July before a fireworks show at nearby park. The party was located pretty far from my apartment and the house was crowded (I didn't expect so many people to come over that night) and small (most people were hanging out in the backyard when there wasn't enough room in the house) so I wasn't prepared to make any pulls with some of the college girls there at the time but I was willing to extract a phone number or two. Arriving at the party I noticed that I was the best dressed individual in a "dressier casual look" as the guys there were wearing T-shirts, frayed shorts, sandals, and carried unkempt beards. I felt, at least, I was able to fare much better approaching some of the girls (who were dressed pretty well during the warm evening) than most of the guys there as making a very positive first impression to new people was important to me.
Introductions
After I chatted with the classmates I knew, I ventured out and joined in a few drinking games to meet the people. I didn't want to look awkward by just sitting alone sipping on my beer. The last game I played involved driving an opponents nail into a wooden stump. This gave me a opportunity to introduce myself to the girls depending on which nail I would strike. One girl next to me, Megan, was a slender brunette in a small blue summer dress and caught my eye. I introduced myself and she introduced herself and her friends and roommate. I began innocently flirting with her when one guy stepped in between us and try to tool me for talking to "his girl" so I calmly shrugged it off and told him I was just making small talk with new people at the party. The game went on as I introduced myself to Megan's roommate, Kaitlyn. Although, Kaitlyn was a pretty cute tall blonde in a white blouse and shorts, I didn't think much of her as I was originally aiming for her roommate Megan.
Deep Dive
After me and a few others were eliminated from the game, I sat down alone nearby to watch the game go on. Megan sat down next to me so I started doing a deep-dive with her for 5 minutes until her boyfriend came to get her so they can go smoke weed. A few minutes later, Kaitlyn decided to come sit next to me and we started talking about how her evening was and how she knew the host of the party. We talked about our majors...
Kaitlyn: I'm finishing my Graphic Design major and I'll be graduating in December. What's yours?
Me: Well, Kaitlyn. You've got discerning eyes for a designer...why don't you take a guess?
Kaitlyn: Hmm....you look like you're taking a Masters in physics.
Me: Haha! I guess your eyes aren't THAT discerning. No, I'm just taking a Second Bachelors in Graphic Design.
Kaitlyn: Oh, no way! You just look so different from the other guys here I thought you were taking a Masters or Doctorates. It's just the way you dress and carry yourself...you look like you know what you're doing and have a plan in life. I'm impressed!
Me: Oh, thank you, my dear!
Compliance Test and Close
We proceeded to talk more about what she was all about for an hour until it was time to start walking to the nearby park to see the fireworks. Kaitlyn then wanted to look for her roommate Megan, who was no where to be seen on the premises. I would tell Kaitlyn "Megan's gonna be alright. She'll find her way to the park. It's seems pretty close. Let's go head on out." I would gently grab her hand and lead her through the crowded backyard and make our way to the park. I would test out her attraction by lightening my grip on her hand to see if she would try to continue holding it and it was safe to say she was interested. At the park, we'd sit and talk more until the fireworks started shooting. Unfortunately, from our current position at the park, we didn't see the fireworks so I asked "Lets say we move over there to get a better view?" and gently grabbed her hand to lead her to a better vantage point. After the fireworks stopped, we both walked back to the house party. On our way there...
Me: That was one impressive show! It was also great hanging out with you tonight. What do you say we hangout next week when you're free?
Kaitlyn: Yeah sure! That would be fun!
Me: Great! Let's swap our contact info so we can coordinate.
[We trade our cellphones to punch in our contact numbers]
Me: Cool. Anyway, what did you think of the show?....
Once we got to the house party, we sat back down in the back yard and continued talking for a few minutes before everyone else started trickling in. By this time it was getting real loud and people were smoking weed that it was getting distracting so I suggested we go inside the house where there was less people and there was no smoke. So she came along and we both sat down on the couch in the living room where there were a few people talking and continued our conversation. Later, I noticed her roommate Megan was departing the party with her friends and decided to check on Kaitlyn. Kaitlyn told Megan that she was going to be alright and was going to depart later since she drove separately. We ended up talking till 11:45 PM before we both were getting tired and decided to leave the party to go home our separate ways. Later the next day, I texted her: "Hey Kaitlyn! It was a pleasure meeting you last night. Have a great weekend
"Reflection
Overall, I felt the initial interaction between me and Megan were good until her boyfriend stopped by to tool me. I felt I did the right thing by not losing control in front of everybody and getting combative. I felt that if he really wanted her then I wasn't going to put in too much effort to "fight" him for Megan. Also, I feel that I should've dropped any more effort into Megan and started conversing with the many other girls there immediately instead of trying to focus on one girl. Honestly, when I met Kaitlyn, I wasn't expecting to connect with her on a pretty deep level. She mentioned she was pretty introverted at parties and didn't care for meeting strangers and small talk. What was funny was that I got her talking most of the time after I asked the right questions to get ourselves past the small talk. I feel that she feels refreshed and more comfortable with me during the party as she didn't know anyone else besides her roommate. The conversation was pretty enjoyable and flowed naturally as I found ways to discretely talk about "naughty" things. Looking into her eyes, I felt that I could see the attraction for me build up. As the night was coming to a close for us, I feel that I should've suggested she drive us to go for some tea at a local coffee shop that was open 24/7 near my apartment. There, I could've possibly made a pull back to my apartment where I could continue the seduction and escalate.
