How are guys meeting these girls and what do they have that I don't?

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

I go out in public to eat and watch movies and every now and then I see a guy with his girlfriend who happens to be somewhat cute and sometimes hot. After reading Chase's articles for a while and studying PUA its like I have gotten over my approach anxiety and learned all this deep psychological stuff about women and attraction but I completely missed the important point. The point, I don't know how guys are actually meeting those girls and escalating with them from there.

Like for college I know guys meet girls in classes, dorms, and common activities but I am done with college. I am more curious about how guys after college are meeting girls and then advancing enough to go on dates with them and take them out. Being late to the party and missing the entire high school experience due to being homeschooled I never learned that part well enough.

For me I can approach girls without any problems at all, talk to them, get their number, but after that I am completely lost. I text them but think it might be because I am taking too long to ask them out which has gotten me friendzoned in the past.

In my situation I feel like I know a lot about female psychology and can easily approach girls but I don't know how to go beyond that. I don't know how to translate my knowledge into taking cute girls on dates with me and I am confused as to how guys who take these cute girls on dates with them got them to go in the first place. Yes it truly puzzles me.

I have asked girls out and been told by them that they were busy (aka rejection).

What I am trying to get out of this thread is how can I take my knowledge of the female psychology along with my boldness (can approach any girl) and apply that to actually taking hot girls on dates with me. Ya I know my thread is kinda stupid for a lot of you advanced guys in here but I just want some information on how to actually take it farther with the opposite sex.

 

[R.A.D.]

You say you want to take hot girls out does that mean you can already take girls that are not hot for your standards out? or do you have problems with girls in general?

Have you read the articles on conversation, texting and all the topics you mention?

You should post some field reports because its better to work on your actions, that will make the suggestions of others more specific and practical to you than a general opinion on why that might be happening. Also that way what you consider failure can be transformed into a problem that can be dealt with.

You should forget what you know or dont know about female psichology and focus on what works and what doesnt and only add things that allow you to do new things with women. Its not useful to know why a woman might or might think or feel when you do something but it is useful to know that if you do x thing women react x way most times and if they dont then most times that means you should move on to the next.

That is very simplistic i know but its just to say that knowledge is good only as long as it is practical, if it isnt its just information ocupying space in your head and making you overthink things.