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How best to seduce after shes had a breakup?

darklarik

Space Monkey
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Hi, so a girl ive know but never given much attention to has recently broke up, and im looking for tips of what is the best way to seduce her. Some info: This is a very introverted book reading calculating geeky, stay at home girl (capricorn) who seems like the type to prefer long term relationships, I have some degree of trust with her, as we have previously had some deep conversations, but i still never really gave her much attention knowing she was in a relationship.

After she broke up i last minute invited her to hang out at a birthday party i was going to with a friend at a bar, she said yes (weve never hanged out before) and she was very grateful, and said she would like to see me more often, i was studying her body language and it would seem she has an interest in me, but shes still reeling and unsure about her recent breakup (i made no hard move, but i did throw some innuendo or tiny suggestion).

She recently has broken up (last week), after almost 2 years. He broke up with her, i suspect shes not over it. I would like to know what is the best approach to a girl like this, with the objective of possibly engaging in a relationship with her if possible. Should i make a move fast? Should i wait? What cautions should i take into account? What approach (so as not to fall as a 'friend' ps: She has never refereed to me or i to her as a friend, but we are relatively close)? How quickly should i make a move?

Also, im seing another girl on the side (nothing serious nor is it heading anywhere, just casual sex), should i drop her? Im much more interested and i feel a much deeper connection with this other one, which is why i would like any advice how best to seduce (fuck) her asap and possibly take her as a girlfriend (i havent seen many articles of the site about actually reeling in women as a relationship, hell one of the articles says to always let em know 'your not looking for a relationship', i dont want casual with this girl).

Help?
 

Dude909

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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You as many guys on this board have a problem of tying to adapt to girls agendas. That's syupplicating and not how it works. You need to lead the way and let them come on board or let themselves out.
 
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Frost

Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I would say isolate her at the party and do your usual thing like with any other girl, but I think that she might need some time after her breakup. You said that her boyfriend dumped her so it's even harder, and after a relationship that long she might not be want to get back in the game so soon. But then again I don't know her, nor you so it might work.

My advice, give her some space. If she's not over him and still gets in a relationship with you, you will both be unsatisfied.

Oh and certainly don't drop that other girl before you start to get serious with this one and decide that you want to be exclusive.
 
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