How difficult is it to find friends to join you on this journey? (biggest issue)

[Indian Race Troll (IRT)]

Growing up in the Bible Belt, I ran into a lot of the morally self-righteous types that looked down on chasing women, sleeping around, and premarital sex. Throughout my college days, I had to be the one to go out alone when it came to chasing girls. In a way, I wish I had a few friends to join me on this journey and go out to the bars and clubs with me but I didn't At times I wonder if my problem was location or just that it is like this everywhere in the USA. Throughout my life, I have had a tough find making friends who were good with women or wanted to be good with women.

I would make friends but the issue is that a lot of them were good ol Christian boys that came from overly religious families and looked down on chasing women. Even the few frat guys I made friends with looked down on actually approaching women, they got laid through social circle and status in that social circle.

How difficult is it for a guy to find friends, not on PUA forums or anything but just real life, who are willing to be supportive of him in this journey and help him in this regard?

 

[skin_man]

Re: How difficult is it to find friends to join you on this journey? (biggest is

Never worry about finding people to join you on this sort of journey. It's not written on people's public lives or their faces (excuse the tongue in cheek remark).

Instead, you Go out and keep getting better. Change locales, be free about your judgments of others. Show this by being open about sex conversations. This would mean be daring.

If you're uncomfortable talking it, there's always that guy who does so in every group

so even at church, listen to that guy and laugh at his coy sex jokes with him. It'll make him feel warm towards you and with more and more of this you could win a buddy. However in that scenario i recommend being discreet till you can see him actually game women before starting your hang out on a regular with him.


But really never worry about having a buddy to do it with. Honestly, if you do and then actually get someone, your worry will increase -- now you want to know how much he's really into it or if he's only going to quit when he gets richer or gets a new job or such and such.

Hope this helps.