How do guys get a lot of lays off cold approach ?

[Sub-Zero]

All I've ever heard about cold approach was that it takes a lot of approaches to sleep with a handful of girls, of course this changes with skills.

But how do men sleep with many women off of it if it takes so many approaches ? How much time are men putting in cold approach to get to 50-200 lays at a young age like girls chase authors?

 

[Cacc]

It doesn't necessarily take a lot of approaches. It depends on whether you are approaching every decent girl you see or if you're tailoring a more sniper style based approach.

The former is probably better if you're new because it gives you more data points. Let's you rack up more experiences faster. Also if you're new you might not get a lot of approach signals or even be aware of them. I personally approach girls who give me approach invitations or women who I find really, really attractive. The more I like a woman, the more she tends to like me, for some reason. I don't(can't) go to clubs/bars. I don't go out for the purpose of cold approach. I simply live my life and approach the women I run into who I like.

Obviously this is more efficient, but you'll improve slower because you're not collecting as many data points. Which is fine for me, I'm at a good place right now, plus I have a girlfriend. I've become more interested in handling rship dynamics than in seduction, but the conquest is still fun.

So really, it comes down to your current skill level, how fast you want to improve, and your goals.

 

[foggy]

good question.

simple…you need a good understanding of what works and what doesn't.

and in order to gain that understanding, you need years and years of experience.. making mistakes and getting rejected..figuring out patterns in the way that girls of different types react to you when you say this in that vocal tone, or do that before the exact moment you know she's probably gonna be feeling a certain way.

it also helps to develop your fundamentals.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Thanks guys.