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Over the years I have noticed that my experiences with foreign women and American women from middle class areas have been amazing. I once dated a French girl who said she was amazed by my looks and we had a great time until she had to go back to France, long distance so it didn't work. One time I met a beautiful Brazilian girl who would turn heads everywhere she went, talked to her, did what seduction material has taught me, and we were in a relationship before I decided I wanted to try my luck with other girls and she went back to Brazil. Even with American women (White or Minority) from working class areas and middle class areas I have had a GREAT time, they wanted to get to know me better and I liked that about them. One time I went to visit my friend in a small town in Wisconsin where I was the only foreign looking person and those people did everything to make me feel at home, the girls he introduced me to were nice to me as well, it was a rural community but they were good people.
I found that these women that I ran into were great people, they cared about who I was as a person, and they wanted to know me, my stories, and what I had to offer.
Well, unfortunately now I go to a private university where a vast majority of the girls are from suburbia. They have parents that buy them nice cars, dress trendy, LOVE going to Starbucks, and they like to update their instagram every second (they do take a lot of selfies). What I have found is that the stuff that worked on the French girl, the Brazilian girl, and other kinds of girls I have dated has fallen flat with these girls.
Here is where it gets a little confusing, when you first meet these girls, they are all nice, smiles, and overly kind to you. Then when you see them again they are so nonchalant. It is as if they don't give a fuck about what you have to say or anything. From my perspective it seems like these girls practice a lot of Pre-Selection and have already decided what kind of guys they will hook up with.
As I said, usually I wouldn't care but since I am around so many of them I want to know, how are guys having success with them?
The only kind of guys I see getting these girls are those with the looks of an Abercrombie Fitch Male Model but since I am a minority (desi) that disqualifies me. It is like there is absolutely no path laid out for a guy like me to have success with a girl who was raised in a nice neighborhood, never had to worry about money her entire life, and feels entitled to the most handsome men in the world.
I guess I am just frustrated because I have been trying my luck but fall flat every single time.
I found that these women that I ran into were great people, they cared about who I was as a person, and they wanted to know me, my stories, and what I had to offer.
Well, unfortunately now I go to a private university where a vast majority of the girls are from suburbia. They have parents that buy them nice cars, dress trendy, LOVE going to Starbucks, and they like to update their instagram every second (they do take a lot of selfies). What I have found is that the stuff that worked on the French girl, the Brazilian girl, and other kinds of girls I have dated has fallen flat with these girls.
Here is where it gets a little confusing, when you first meet these girls, they are all nice, smiles, and overly kind to you. Then when you see them again they are so nonchalant. It is as if they don't give a fuck about what you have to say or anything. From my perspective it seems like these girls practice a lot of Pre-Selection and have already decided what kind of guys they will hook up with.
As I said, usually I wouldn't care but since I am around so many of them I want to know, how are guys having success with them?
The only kind of guys I see getting these girls are those with the looks of an Abercrombie Fitch Male Model but since I am a minority (desi) that disqualifies me. It is like there is absolutely no path laid out for a guy like me to have success with a girl who was raised in a nice neighborhood, never had to worry about money her entire life, and feels entitled to the most handsome men in the world.
I guess I am just frustrated because I have been trying my luck but fall flat every single time.
