how do i get my ex girlfriend back

[ray_J]

Hi my girlfriend broke things of with me 2 monds ago, she went abroad for 6 monds to study. I went with here to move here stuff and i visited here once the first mond she was there.
she cried when i we sad our goodbye's. 2 weeks later we got in a figh becos she told me she couldn''t do longdictance. I asked here if she wanted to break things off, she told me she was shoked by my responce. She asked me for space. 3 days later she broke up with me. I did everything worng texted, called here trying to save the relationschip. She blocked me on everything, So i drove 7 houres to speak to here. She told me she, lost atraction, I was to nice, I was to closed up, we where to different, we have different futhers plans....
She changed here story 10 times. I havens spoken to here for more than a mond. She came back to visit here family. I saw her in the club, she talked to a guy infront of me, and later that night she texted me. That it whasn't her intention to ruin my night. she added me on different social media. but when i texted back, she turnd cold. What can i do to get here back. there are 2 different way's to do that on the internet, but what can i use in my situation? ( longdistance, lost atraction, carrier minded, stubborn ex, and dit everything wrong)

Ray_j

 

[Parkour]

The neediness that makes you want her back is precisely the reason you can't have her. I suggest doing a lot of reading on this site. You will need to develop and build skills and a reality for yourself that will open up the door for many awesome girls just as good or better than her. By the time you can have her back, she may not be that interesting to you any more.
There aren't any real shortcuts. You've got to be free from need, fully expressing yourself, calibrated at driving attraction, and awesome girls will be chasing you.

 

[Drck]

Hi my girlfriend broke things of with me 2 monds ago, she went abroad for 6 monds to study.
>>>> When she is moving away from you physically (study abroad, getting different job, ...) DO NOT CHASE. Let her go...

I went with here to move here stuff and i visited here once the first mond she was there.
>>>> You were chasing... The more you chase the further she runs...

she cried when i we sad our goodbye's.
>>>> No she didn't. She was already decided to leave you. She just felt bad because she knew you have no clue...

2 weeks later we got in a figh becos she told me she couldn''t do longdictance.
>>>> She moved away and now she is officially breaking with you...

I asked here if she wanted to break things off, she told me she was shoked by my responce.
>>>> She already told you that long distance is not working. She is right, she moved away from you and then she told you, hoping that you "got it"...

She asked me for space.
>>>> She is telling you again, she needs more and more space between you and her...

3 days later she broke up with me.
>>>> Nope, she already broke up with you BEFORE she even told you that she is moving away... She just did it slowly over some period of time...

I did everything worng texted, called here trying to save the relationschip.
>>>> Exactly, you did everything wrong, you were chasing...

She blocked me on everything
>>>> Yes, you were chasing so much that she had to block you. Some girls in the future may even accuse you of stalking - do not be surpriced... Once she blocks you you can be sure that she doesn't want to communicate with you...

So i drove 7 houres to speak to here.
>>>> You are chasing even more...

She told me she, lost atraction, I was to nice, I was to closed up, we where to different, we have different futhers plans....
>>>> Yea, she sort of had to tell you again that she broke up with you...

She changed here story 10 times.
>>>> Not really. It is the same story over and over - she broke up with you. You just don't want to hear what she has to say, that is why she had to tell you many times in many different forms...

I havens spoken to here for more than a mond. She came back to visit here family. I saw her in the club, she talked to a guy infront of me
>>>> She broke up with you, she is talking to different guys.... "Got it"?

, and later that night she texted me. That it whasn't her intention to ruin my night.
>>>> She feels bad because she saw that you are hurt...

she added me on different social media.
>>>> She is saying: "Hey, don't feel so bad, we can at least be friends"...

but when i texted back, she turnd cold.
>>>> She is saying: "I said friends, not lovers. We can be friends BUT I do not want to talk to you"

What can i do to get here back.
>>>> Absolutely nothing, she is gone. Do not chase, stop hoping that she will come back because she is not... Focus on other girls, focus on developing Abundance Mentality and Value... And learn one very important thing: DO NOT CHASE ANY GIRL...