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Lads,
I just re-read Dating and Relationship Precedent: Why It’s So Very Important
https://www.girlschase.com/content/datin ... -important.
Here is what stood out that I need to work on...and I need some more insight...
"Reward bad behavior. She pulls away? You chase. Bad precedent. Lots of guys do this though, over and over... and if you do, she'll know right away you're one of them. Want to change your tune later and act hard to get? She ain't buying it; the precedent is set, and she knows you're the chaser. Or, she flakes on a date you set, and you text her happy and friendly the next day as if nothing happened? You're her texting buddy, and the precedent of her doing whatever she wants and you just taking it is set."
I had a girl that I was very interested in flake on me.....twice.....on both occasions I was way too nice about it and even tried to reschedule. I was in a week time and she was the best sex I'd had in months. On the third flake I stopped all form of communication, went traveling for 2 weeks and starting working on my business goals for 2014. I replaced her with 2 girls that were very much interested and always asking me to come over and sleep with them...needless to say I set a strong president with these 2 and life was good.
Last weak I wake up to a text from the girl who I originally set the bad president with asking me to come over to her place and help her paint her Kitchen. I act aloof about it and don't act too eager to help. I tease her on what she is getting herself into and the next day she asks me to come over...tuesday...that was 2 days ago. I agree and do not talk to her after that,,,,,Tuesday roles around and again nothing from her. I know if she really wanted me to come over then I would have been over there and have her on her kitchen table....but that never happened.
Here is the thing. I know she is going to contact me again in some form or another....I've already shit the bed the first 2 times she's flaked and I even walked away from her...I replaced her and didn't chase her and honestly the 2 girls I replaced her with are starting to get boring. I know I am in need of replenishing the pipeline but I would like to get the girl who is flaky back in the mix.
In short, how have you reversed bad precedent or once it's done is it done? Chase did say we all have our weak moments and that women will hit you hardest at those points.
I know my phone is going to blow up from this girl in the next few days, I'll keep you posted but let me know if you lads have any experience in turning things around. Not all is lost with this one and I'll see to it that I replace her in due time with someone of equal or more of the attraction that I had for miss flake.
I just re-read Dating and Relationship Precedent: Why It’s So Very Important
https://www.girlschase.com/content/datin ... -important.
Here is what stood out that I need to work on...and I need some more insight...
"Reward bad behavior. She pulls away? You chase. Bad precedent. Lots of guys do this though, over and over... and if you do, she'll know right away you're one of them. Want to change your tune later and act hard to get? She ain't buying it; the precedent is set, and she knows you're the chaser. Or, she flakes on a date you set, and you text her happy and friendly the next day as if nothing happened? You're her texting buddy, and the precedent of her doing whatever she wants and you just taking it is set."
I had a girl that I was very interested in flake on me.....twice.....on both occasions I was way too nice about it and even tried to reschedule. I was in a week time and she was the best sex I'd had in months. On the third flake I stopped all form of communication, went traveling for 2 weeks and starting working on my business goals for 2014. I replaced her with 2 girls that were very much interested and always asking me to come over and sleep with them...needless to say I set a strong president with these 2 and life was good.
Last weak I wake up to a text from the girl who I originally set the bad president with asking me to come over to her place and help her paint her Kitchen. I act aloof about it and don't act too eager to help. I tease her on what she is getting herself into and the next day she asks me to come over...tuesday...that was 2 days ago. I agree and do not talk to her after that,,,,,Tuesday roles around and again nothing from her. I know if she really wanted me to come over then I would have been over there and have her on her kitchen table....but that never happened.
Here is the thing. I know she is going to contact me again in some form or another....I've already shit the bed the first 2 times she's flaked and I even walked away from her...I replaced her and didn't chase her and honestly the 2 girls I replaced her with are starting to get boring. I know I am in need of replenishing the pipeline but I would like to get the girl who is flaky back in the mix.
In short, how have you reversed bad precedent or once it's done is it done? Chase did say we all have our weak moments and that women will hit you hardest at those points.
I know my phone is going to blow up from this girl in the next few days, I'll keep you posted but let me know if you lads have any experience in turning things around. Not all is lost with this one and I'll see to it that I replace her in due time with someone of equal or more of the attraction that I had for miss flake.
" or direct "Hey Chica, tell me what days your free this week so we can meet up.