How do you flake on a girl without making her feel auto-rejected?

[perpetualsun]

Currently I have been massively busy with things and so have had to flake on a girl twice already. I did meet up with her after flaking twice and things went ok for an informational coffee date. The only thing is, things have gotten busy again so I was looking to change the date to two days after the proposed date time. However, I can tell that she is feeling more auto-rejected than before. Is there a way to flake on a girl without making her feel auto-rejection? Thanks!

 

[Lawliet]

Currently I have been massively busy with things and so have had to flake on a girl twice already. I did meet up with her after flaking twice and things went ok for an informational coffee date. The only thing is, things have gotten busy again so I was looking to change the date to two days after the proposed date time. However, I can tell that she is feeling more auto-rejected than before. Is there a way to flake on a girl without making her feel auto-rejection? Thanks!

Why keep setting up dates when you're busy?
Just be honest. Tell her you're busy for however long you are busy for, and go silent for awhile.
Once you're free, reinitiate. That easy.